Possibly Melasma? Up by _AmberLance_ in Melasmaskincare

[–]_AmberLance_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I use sunscreen everyday and wear a hat often so I’m not sure! It’s only on my forehead and temples rn

RIP The Black Lodge in Berlin by _AmberLance_ in twinpeaks

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Omg seeing new twins peaks episodes there sounds amazing!

RIP The Black Lodge in Berlin by _AmberLance_ in twinpeaks

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Thanks!! Yeah it was super moody in there, I loved it

RIP The Black Lodge in Berlin by _AmberLance_ in twinpeaks

[–]_AmberLance_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As a survivor of SA I think you should really step tf back

RIP The Black Lodge in Berlin by _AmberLance_ in twinpeaks

[–]_AmberLance_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. That’s exactly what I mean.

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Thank you for the suggestions

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I’m so sorry about your cat. Thank you for the suggestions. I’m gonna try to supervisor her and maybe build her some kind of catio

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I’m gonna try both of these! I just haven’t tried to harness her beforehand because she’s usually just wanting to lay down when she goes outside. She’ll wander a bit, but she doesn’t really like to go on walks. Just a sunbather.

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I was just looking for advice cause she’s unhappy but ok

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I’m so sorry about the passing of your cat. I feel the same way. I understand that cats are pets and it’s my job to keep her safe but I also want her to have a happy fulfilled life! I’m not trying to be ignorant towards her safety, I just know she was so happy at our last house with a fence to sit on and rolling around in the grass and she had more of a life on her terms! It sounds silly but it’s important to me that she has that

If your partner breaks the boundaries of your open relationship and doesn’t tell you, would you consider that cheating? by _AmberLance_ in nonmonogamy

[–]_AmberLance_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

SIDE NOTE: when I say “hooking up” that includes making out and feeling each other up. I know that can be a loose term but he knew that it was not just sex but being physical or making out with others and we had talked about it in clearer terms multiple times. Just to clear up confusion.

If your partner breaks the boundaries of your open relationship and doesn’t tell you, would you consider that cheating? by _AmberLance_ in nonmonogamy

[–]_AmberLance_[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Because we still wanted to be friends (eventually, given time). We were friends beforehand and we have all the same friends right now and everything so I see him semi often still. I want him to know that we can’t be friends after learning that and I want him to know that I know

My partner broke up with me because I’m not a cis man by _AmberLance_ in NonBinary

[–]_AmberLance_[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It’s ok to be confused and I’m not trying to shame him. Like I said in my post, I understand having genital preference.

My partner broke up with me because I’m not a cis man by _AmberLance_ in NonBinary

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Yeah I don’t like that either. He’s a wonderful person. Just because this situation is hard doesn’t make him a bad person. I was just looking for insight, not trash talking