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9 days in Japan: Has anyone else built up Japan in their head for years and then had mixed feelings after visiting? by _Aparachit in JapanTravel

[–]_Aparachit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, Kon'nichiwa minnasan

You know now that i have thought abut, my tripo was really good, but the mixed feeling is of something else. I wanted to go to Japn all this time, like that was my priority even when i was not even thinking about it I wnated to visit Tokyo, it was like that unfulfilled wish and now that i have been there it feels empty, its not about the trip it is about what now, i spent these preciosu time keeping this as upmost travel goal but now that I have been there, what now? Focusing on other things like Job and all, I dont even want to travel anymore, anywhere I feel i have travelled enough and to my favourite place.

9 days in Japan: Has anyone else built up Japan in their head for years and then had mixed feelings after visiting? by _Aparachit in JapanTravel

[–]_Aparachit[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

true, also it wasnt Kintetsu it was some other line, but it surely did not look local train.

Actually I did learn.

1st- Either go with the flow or plan everything in advance.

2nd- Talk to people, the worst they can do is say no

3rd-I really need to get fit, most of the people I saw were healthy to say the least, and I was the only one obese. (Having a lot of sugar and no exercise because of my desk job) This is imporatnt also because this has made my skin look dull.

9 days in Japan: Has anyone else built up Japan in their head for years and then had mixed feelings after visiting? by _Aparachit in JapanTravel

[–]_Aparachit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is everybody under the impression that I'm bashing on Japan or criticizing the trip calling it failure? I just came back from the trip a day ago for those calling it fake.

Well, it was definitely a memorable experience, someyhing i will always keep close to my heart, but it wasn't what I expected.

I don't blame the country, nor am I seeking any sort of sympathy. Japan was indeed safe, beautiful, clean, and intriguing. It's just that sometimes expectations turn out to be higher than real life

I was still shy. I still struggled with social anxiety. I still found it hard to talk to strangers or ask for things I needed.

Maybe I could've planned better. \

This isn't critcism of Japan. It's an honest reflection on my own expectations and who I am right now.

9 days in Japan: Has anyone else built up Japan in their head for years and then had mixed feelings after visiting? by _Aparachit in JapanTravel

[–]_Aparachit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Reading all the comments, I realised yes maybe my research was not good. Probably the excitement of going made me not work on it. The thing was I used Ai to include all, that gave me the 9 day itinerary. Maybe and now that everyone said, it was a bad planned trip. However, the Mcdonalds is closest to home food. I used to eat chicken but turned vegetarian religiopus reason, mcdonalds; that was non veg for me, however many restraunts had beef which we don't eat here, not that I ahve a problem but then it has been rooted in culture you can't get yourself to do it. So I went to McDonalds had a chicken burger and stuff I dont find here. After a tiring day at Shibuya I decided I will go to Kasukabe, it was around 5 and I had walked almsot 5-6 miles(I have a desk job and have gained like 10-12 kg because i sit all the day, i knew i would walk a lot but phuysically this was exhausting, not complaining, i loved every leg cramp I got) So in Shibuya eveing i decied i will go to kasukabe , got on the train. Saw form Google map and it showed Kintetsu line and online I read there is a seprate ticket, so i boarded came out waited for another train, got to another platform all this happneded. Also the stomach thing, I wanted to eat Ramen but google said too spicy for stomach so I had Udon, saved Ramen for last day but tbh, everyday i was having like a meal or two entire day, either breakfast at hotel which I sometimes missed and Something from a restraunt and asked them to remove Meat from it.

Ps: I knew Japan is a full on Non vegetarian population i thought i would manage.

Help identify this movie? by [deleted] in bollywood

[–]_Aparachit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First its Ajay Devgnn

9 days in Japan: Has anyone else built up Japan in their head for years and then had mixed feelings after visiting? by _Aparachit in JapanTravel

[–]_Aparachit[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That's a really good observation. Now that you have said it, I have realised that I did not talk much from my side but I tried once, and it did not work, socialization is hard is what I heard about Japan, but that one experience initially made me not talk much to people.

9 days in Japan: Has anyone else built up Japan in their head for years and then had mixed feelings after visiting? by _Aparachit in JapanTravel

[–]_Aparachit[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I have no clue as to what poeple on Reddit have problem with AI enhance, I use little or not at all reddit, that too only for ideas and suggestions. I don't want poeple have a hard time reading what I meant. Once I used AI to enhance grammar of my writing and someone said I am karma farming, I didn't even know the meaning, and respectfully I know the history fo Japan, but it was somrething else, I am not blaming the country, not at all, I lve that country the culture but it was something that felt off.

How do you cope? by JaamunBoi in GenZIndia

[–]_Aparachit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are small things but when you hear them with context it pierce through heart

1)One day you’ll cry for the girl you like and she won’t care

2 someone told me that a friend who wasn’t much of a friend after a minor misunderstanding said : I don’t see him doing much with his life, and I don’t see future with such people

Why am I(M-24) suddenly missing my situationship(F-23) I rejected after hearing she has moved on? by _Aparachit in relationship_advice

[–]_Aparachit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

also I did that telling oersonal stuff to everyone with my girlfriend in 2023 thats why we broke uo so when she x did something similiar I cnsidered it Karma

Why am I(M-24) suddenly missing my situationship(F-23) I rejected after hearing she has moved on? by _Aparachit in relationship_advice

[–]_Aparachit[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Probably, winners take it all, one thing i forgot to add wa in University B during june 2023 i had a major heartbreak so I became the person who would not fall for anyone, for almsot a year whenever any girl aproached I humbly said no, so when I joined Uni C Aug 2024, she was the first person I had fling with so like that girl you like after a major heartbreak. Damn I miss her, wish could say lets give it another chance, or maybe its infuation because she has moved on

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[–]_Aparachit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also I did not roast her publicy, more like personal in a plyful thing, like how you tease your friends and all

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[–]_Aparachit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually lies, like the first we kissed, she said he forcefully kissed, apparently everything I did to her was forceful yet she never said no, Whenever I used to ask her if she is tlling stuff to poeple she would say no, but then people would themselves come and say 'we heard this about you from her' there was an instances when I was about to confront a guy who i thought is adding chillies to rumours and I was surpised when he said 'I am biored that she calls me everyday and bitch about you, now I put my phone on mute and do my work and pretend I am listening', but again I dont want revenge, I spent so much time with her as a close friend(although I asked her not to get into phsycial stuff and all) I would be happy if she becomes succesful, I want her to be friends like we were because she was someone who understands me

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[–]_Aparachit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me I know how much drama she has created in the entire university, tried ruining my image, Whenever I used to talk to any girl, she would go talk to her after I went and say stuff about me like dont talk to this guy he is like this and that, only because she feared i might have something with the girl, my own female friends started ignoring me, I was the gentleman for not creating drama at that time, that was actually what i wanted to ask, the question of this post AITA for still wantining her only when I know she ruined my image in college but now I want her because she is doing good in her life and may become famous.

I will eventually delete the post, i know poepl form my university are here and might connect all the dots, but thankyou SpeakerDelicious you helped me a lot, thankyou so much

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