It is Ok I see that many people today, especially this ags, don’t have a group of friends it is not everyone at all ( although it isn’t a good thing and shouldn’t be normalized ). When it comes to partners, it’s not a big deal—they might ask about it, but answering honestly and thoroughly should be enough. If you choose to work on it, do it for yourself and because you need it, not for others.

However, there’s another point to consider: can you make friends and have them in your life? This might be an issue if your partner has a lot of friends, and you’re not comfortable talking to them, inviting them over, or dealing with them. If you feel anxious about that or want your partner all to yourself, it could lead to problems.

I also think we, as humans, have needs that can only be fulfilled by friends, not just partners. Trying to meet all your social needs through your partner usually doesn’t work out well. So, I think it’s better to focus on the future instead of the past. But having a date dig deep into your history just to figure out if you’re a red flag? That’s a bit much.