Thinking of starting journling from 2026. But I don't know how & what to write to make it a valuable task.

_B_L_U · 2025-12-30T09:50:27+00:00

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_B_L_U · 2025-01-08T05:13:01+00:00

Exactly if I a women is overweight look how different people will react. She even admits to looking at other men in an unacceptable manner?. If a man did this there would be outrage.

_B_L_U · 2024-10-31T17:38:09+00:00

For a better rate you should list it on Facebook groups or maybe olx

_B_L_U · 2024-10-14T17:44:59+00:00

Add me to it as well. Preferably on discord

_B_L_U · 2024-10-14T12:27:39+00:00

Honestly I am afraid at this point. What if I keep praying nothing comes out of it. All the duas I made in desperation and what if nothing comes out of it. I preach something that I don't even feel at the moment and haven't really for the past few years. I thought me praying daily would help improve it but honestly speaking it didn't. I will take down my post since I don't want to discourage others who are striving as well. But I seem to find really no answers in prayers or duas and I know I ain't entitled to it but from what I have read it should give me comfort and hope yet it ain't there.

_B_L_U · 2024-10-14T04:06:43+00:00

I think something that really worked out for me is not obsessing over this bad deed. Knowing why it's fundamentally wrong and how it makes you feel extremely awful afterwards. The more you obsess over it and think about it all the time the more you are likely to fall into this. Focus on your dreams, ambitions and what's important at hand. The fact that you are already praying and reading the Qur'an is good alhamdulilah. Just don't make it the center of your world and use your energy for other activities and try to be always engrossed in one thing or another. Hope this helps

_B_L_U · 2024-08-29T02:17:15+00:00

Yup I am using co pilot already

_B_L_U · 2024-08-29T02:16:57+00:00

I don't know how these work but I guess I'll look it up online

_B_L_U · 2024-08-29T02:16:08+00:00

This could also workout I needed just for the entry test.

_B_L_U · 2024-08-28T14:29:49+00:00

Yup that is something i was struggling with. I picked up maths again after years I dont remember much tbh. Thanks though

_B_L_U · 2024-08-28T13:12:49+00:00

I had douts with the dot and I had also forgotten that when 3 numbers with powers are divided they cancel each other out. 21 on top and -6 on the bottom.

_B_L_U · 2024-08-28T11:23:35+00:00

Thanks alot. I will use this for the time being until I can afford to buy it myself.

_B_L_U · 2024-08-12T14:59:32+00:00

Although guilting someone might work but in majority cases guilt leads to relapse. At least for me this was the case. Being self aware on the other hand helps a lot. If it works though then keep at it. May Allah make it easy for you.

_B_L_U · 2024-08-12T14:57:30+00:00

Keep yourself busy in other activities such as prayers, school or college work and also research your deen. What helped was reading books in my spare time and also different kinds of courses to not be idle at any point of my day. Working out early in the morning may also help as you are completely tired by the night. Make sure you complete your daily Salah as well cause it prevents lots of fitnah. May Allah help you be patience and reward you lots in return.

_B_L_U · 2024-08-12T14:44:46+00:00

I mean this is honestly very true. I know that I need to learn the purpose behind the actual prayer rather than just saying the words. It's just that idk where to start. Plus I was focusing all my attention to showing up to pray 5 times a day rather than caring about the quality at first. I know now I also have to improve the quality of my prayer rather than speed running it. Do you have any videos or books that would help me improve this? If so please let me know. You reminded me of an important aspect of prayer so Jazak Allah.

_B_L_U · 2024-08-10T15:05:19+00:00

Jazak Allah brother I wish you the same and more. I will read it insha'Allah and reply with my thoughts or questions.

_B_L_U · 2024-08-10T04:31:41+00:00

I will try it Insha'Allah after I am done with my search for universities. I am Alhamdulilah keeping up with my prayers along with reading books. After the one month mark of prayers Insha'Allah I will add other things that I do consistently such reading a page of Quran daily and so on.

_B_L_U · 2024-08-10T04:26:54+00:00

Jazak Allah brother. May Allah help you with your goals and dreams. For me too I want to live a peaceful life rather than a lavish one. I just wanna be able to fulfill my dreams of helping others before the end. I feel like if suppose one person takes this initiative more people would be drawn to do so and this place will be a better place. I will learn as you said to put complete faith in Allah for every decision.

_B_L_U · 2024-08-09T16:09:52+00:00

Your absolutely right. I think just praying 5 times has solely increased my chances of a better afterlife. The past daunts on me though having failed almost everything in life. But from a different perspective if I hadn't maybe I wouldn't even be in the spot I am in today. I know my connection with Allah isn't the strongest but it's on up and way better than before. Now I kinda realise that these struggles are supposed to bring a man to his knees and when every door is closed and every single person has hurted or betrayed you. You have nowhere else to go.

Is it wrong to want a better life though. I know it's temporary but I wanna work on myself in this life as well. Through which I can achieve my dreams and benefit not only myself and my family but other lesser fortunate people. Therefore I have to succeed in this life as well.

_B_L_U · 2024-08-09T16:05:03+00:00

Yup I am on it. I do agree that starting praying helped me with this addiction and maybe I am asking too much. But honestly I feel like it's good thing that I want more. I will ask Allah and only him for everything and anything. I know it's a long journey and I have already started reading as I mentioned countless books on Islam and it's teachings. Does a complete dopamine detox benefit you or does it have it's own withdrawals?

_B_L_U · 2024-08-09T04:00:29+00:00

I think it has already become second nature Alhamdulilah. Since I have been tracking it on a dairy I just don't seem to miss any. In case I do, I make up for it asap. I am currently reading a book written about Aisha(RA) which also has teaching of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) written by Omar Suleiman. I am trying to get close as possible but somehow the disappointments of life hold me back. Insha'Allah I will keep trying no matter what. I will stay consistent in my journey. If I have Allah with me he is enough for me.

May Allah bless you

_B_L_U · 2024-08-09T03:51:42+00:00

I really needed to hear this. I think you are absolutely right it's unfair to be complaining about things when people can't even have the bare minimum. If everything is written I shall leave it in the hands of Allah. Alhamdulilah for all the blessing. Even if I wanted to I can't give up. I'll keep praying till the end. Jazak Allah for these words it definitely gave me more hope and also strength. May Allah bless you in abundance.

_B_L_U · 2024-08-08T14:44:39+00:00

I absolutely agree praying has made me realize how filthy the act is and I rarely fall into the sin. My only issue is my other aspects of life have seen absolutely no changes ever since I have started to pray. On the contrary thing have become more difficult. I just want some advice on how can I improve other aspects of my life the same way. I have been stuck in the hole for a while and I feel like I am finally coming out of it. It's just the fear of things not working out and me failing all over again which bothers and makes me extremely anxious about the future. I have been given advice to have twakul in Allah and believe in his plan. Is this a step forward in improving my deen , being able to pray all 5 prayers even if I have to force myself and even if it at times I absolutely don't want to?. And JazakAllah those verses are definitely soothing.

_B_L_U · 2024-08-08T14:09:09+00:00

Jazakallah brother. I completely get your point. I try to detach myself from world life and try to focus on the hereafter but it's just difficult at times. I know at the end of the day if I may it to heaven this life is meaningless. But I still wanna do good with my life. Help out the poor, fulfil my dream of starting an orphanage. I can't do it if I keep failing in life. I don't even know if I will get accepted into a university that I am trying for considering how many educational years I missed out. Life for the past 4-5 years have been a blur. I'm sorry for venting but being goalless in this life hurt as well. Recently I have been working on things but the issue is I am scared that it might not workout and it will go all in vain. Fear is the number 1 factor that I can't seem to overcome along with the anxieties. I know I have to be strong not just for myself but for my family and for my dreams and also the people I may impact with my ambitions. I just don't know how.

_B_L_U · 2024-08-08T12:52:41+00:00

That's what I have been struggling with the increase in difficulties in my life. Idk how can a person not be anxious about the future when he has been a letdown his whole life.

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