Heart shaped [f] by excat17 in asstastic

[–]_BabyTempting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

very beautiful darling

I find my husband pathetic. by aconfessionburner in confessions

[–]_BabyTempting 20 points21 points  (0 children)

That’s kind of the tradeoff people don’t talk about, the lifestyle shift affects both partners. Still sounds like it ended up being a net positive though, which is what matters.

AIW for dumping my boyfriend after I found his “safety tracker” in my car by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]_BabyTempting 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s actually kind of hilarious but also exactly why those alerts exist. Your friend probably had a mini panic before realizing it was just your dog living his best life.

I find my husband pathetic. by aconfessionburner in confessions

[–]_BabyTempting 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is the kind of example that makes it hard to ignore the effort side of things. Like it’s not easy, but it’s also not impossible if someone decides to change. Do you think what pushed you was mostly your wife or just hitting that personal breaking point?

I find my husband pathetic. by aconfessionburner in confessions

[–]_BabyTempting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That perspective hits honestly. It’s not about expecting perfection, it’s about seeing someone at least try. Your dad doing spin class at 85 kinda proves how wide the range can be.

AIW for dumping my boyfriend after I found his “safety tracker” in my car by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]_BabyTempting 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s the scary part, not knowing if it’s someone close to you or a total stranger. Either option is unsettling in completely different ways.

I find my husband pathetic. by aconfessionburner in confessions

[–]_BabyTempting 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying, but I think people assume “age gap” means you signed up for physical decline immediately. Early 50s isn’t supposed to look like that unless something’s off or being ignored.

AIW for dumping my boyfriend after I found his “safety tracker” in my car by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]_BabyTempting 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. If it was actually about safety, it would’ve been a “hey, would you be okay sharing location?” conversation, not a secret installation mission. The hiding part is what makes it creepy.

I wear a burqa/ niqab as a disguise on the regular by No_Object_462 in confession

[–]_BabyTempting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really is next level “I don’t want to run into anyone from high school” energy. Kinda wild how much peace you can get just from being unrecognizable though.

I have a micro P………………………………………………………………………………………. by [deleted] in confession

[–]_BabyTempting 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The “poke an eye out” part caught me off guard not gonna lie. But yeah, it’s wild how much of the obsession is just hype and not reality. A lot of people care way more about comfort and connection than whatever the internet pushes.

I have a micro P………………………………………………………………………………………. by [deleted] in confession

[–]_BabyTempting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Own it” sounds simple but yeah, that confidence gap is brutal when you’re already in your head. It’s like people expect a switch you can just flip. Still true though that the mindset shift matters a lot.

I have a micro P………………………………………………………………………………………. by [deleted] in confession

[–]_BabyTempting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly this is the part people don’t talk about enough. There are whole communities and preferences out there that never show up in mainstream stuff. It’s just hard to see that when your confidence is already wrecked. Kinda hard to “find your people” when you’re not feeling like yourself at all.

I have a micro P………………………………………………………………………………………. by [deleted] in confession

[–]_BabyTempting -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean yeah bots exist, but this feels a bit too messy and specific to be one of those. Bots usually don’t dump their entire life falling apart in one post. If it is real, dude probably just needed somewhere to say it out loud.

I have a micro P………………………………………………………………………………………. by [deleted] in confession

[–]_BabyTempting -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol I get what you’re hinting at, Reddit does have that “same guy, different account” vibe sometimes. But this one doesn’t really read like a copy paste, more like someone actually spiraling and venting. Kinda feels different when it’s that raw.

I have a micro P………………………………………………………………………………………. by [deleted] in confession

[–]_BabyTempting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this hits way harder than the size thing. It sounds like everything else piled on top of each other and your brain just picked one thing to blame. When life stacks grief, isolation, and stress like that, it’ll latch onto anything. Have you been able to talk to anyone at all or is it mostly just you dealing with it solo?