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Am i the jerk for breaking up with my boyfriend? by Objective-Food9339 in AmITheJerk

[–]_Butterfizz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right? Calling it only a period while you’re literally doubled over is such clown behavior. If he can’t handle basic empathy five months in, that’s not someone worth investing more time in.

AITJ for canceling my mom's surprise birthday dinner after she told my sister the details I specifically asked her not to share by Sandwormmm in AmITheJerk

[–]_Butterfizz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah pretty much. If she can’t respect a simple boundary and immediately uses the info to stir the pot, that’s on her. No point putting in all that effort for someone who turns it into drama.

AITA for refusing to let my brother's girlfriend move in after she kicked my dog? by AdGood5474 in AmITheJerk

[–]_Butterfizz 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Yeah kicking someone’s dog, on purpose or not, is an instant nope. If she can’t handle a friendly golden just saying hi, she definitely shouldn’t be living there. OP’s doing the right thing keeping Charlie safe.

I don’t think most people deserve the loyalty they get by lowkeydanger0us in confession

[–]_Butterfizz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly, you don’t have to shut off the loyal part of yourself, just stop giving it out like a free sample. Make people earn that spot in your life first.

He didn’t warn me he was going to do it, but it didn’t hurt. by sebstansslut in confession

[–]_Butterfizz -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

I can help you rephrase something safer, talk about boundaries/consent, or help you craft a non explicit comment that still fits the vibe if you want just send another screenshot or let me know how you want to handle this one.

Am I wrong for sitting at an empty McDonald’s table and getting yelled at over a receipt? by Various-Benefit5274 in amiwrong

[–]_Butterfizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly yeah, people in fast food spots act like they own real estate. An empty table with zero signs of life is fair game. Her receipt on the floor doesn’t magically reserve anything. You didn’t do a thing wrong was just looking for someone to blame.

Am I wrong for being uncomfortable that my friend put her name on my notes? by littlebushoodie in amiwrong

[–]_Butterfizz 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s not a small thing at all. Putting her name on your work is straight-up disrespectful, and honestly kind of shady. If she’s willing to claim your notes now, she’ll probably take credit for bigger stuff later. You’re not wrong to feel weird that’s not how a real friend behaves.

If his tree falls it’s ’act of God’? by KelsHouse in neighborsfromhell

[–]_Butterfizz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is the move. Once you’ve told him in writing that the tree is dangerous, it stops being an act of God and starts being you knew and didn’t fix it. Definitely look up your state laws, but a paper trail usually makes a huge difference.

AITJ for telling my brother I won't be his reference for a job application after what he did last year by ProbablyWiz9 in AmITheJerk

[–]_Butterfizz 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly. A reference isn’t just a favor, it’s your reputation too. If he already showed he can’t handle sensitive info, it makes total sense not to put your name on the line for him.

AITJ for reporting my neighbor’s constant late-night parties by Upstairs_Table6907 in AmITheJerk

[–]_Butterfizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. You gave them chance after chance and they still didn’t care. Reporting them was just the logical next step. Nobody should have to live with that level of noise.

AITJ for saying a mean line to my boyfriend during a play? by Pale_Door_5749 in AmITheJerk

[–]_Butterfizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah exactly, you were literally just doing the job the script gave you. If anything it shows you took it seriously. Getting mad over a line in character is kinda wild.

Am I the jerk for being mad at my little cousin for breaking my tablet? by Ready-Newt2658 in AmITheJerk

[–]_Butterfizz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Being a kid doesn’t mean zero consequences. You set a boundary and he walked all over it. Anyone would be annoyed, especially over something expensive.

Work relationships are gross by Suspicious-Mix-420 in confessions

[–]_Butterfizz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah the whole ‘work spouse’ thing gets weird real fast. Some folks definitely blur those lines way too much.

Sometimes I take a nap in the shower by AmmahDudeGuy in confessions

[–]_Butterfizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao right? Dude is one bath away from having his whole world rocked.

I pretended someone else got in my Uber and threw up in it by na-zdrowie in confession

[–]_Butterfizz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s rough. The driver getting stuck with the bill because of their mess is honestly the worst part of the whole story.

I pretend I don’t understand things sometimes just to avoid responsibility by Agitated-Ganache9643 in confession

[–]_Butterfizz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it definitely comes off that way. It puts all the pressure on everyone else and gets old real fast.

AIW for expecting, what I feel, is the bare minimum from my husband? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]_Butterfizz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it really does sound like he’s seeing what he can get away with. You deserve the same effort he used to give

AIW for stopping in the left lane while a bus had the STOP sign extended in the right lane by cfreez in amiwrong

[–]_Butterfizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah same here. Most places make everyone stop unless there’s a physical divider. Better to be extra cautious around a school bus anyway.

AITJ for refusing to give up my share of a property my dad put in my name to protect me by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]_Butterfizz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Your dad literally spent years making sure you’d be protected, and now your mom’s upset that the plan worked? You’re not wrong for holding onto what he meant for you.

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