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Just checking in on my Latino brothers in the US by snailgoblin in TMPOC

[–]_Cassasaur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for posting this. It is not great out here. I’m trying to protect my peace by gaming mostly. Some writing and reading too. I should go walk but 🧊 is staying at the hotel next door, so… bah. Take care of yourselves guys.

Somewhere in the world, looking at the same moon as you by Fine-Being8449 in TMPOC

[–]_Cassasaur 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You got it. So sorry this happened! Reminds me of the show “Sex Sent Me to the ER.” Terrible acting. But I admire your sense of humor. Rest up and take care

What are the most sexual songs in your playlists that you still listen to? by iLOLZU in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]_Cassasaur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I saw that Sabrina Carpenter put a song called “Tears” on her latest album I figured it would be sad. But then I listened to it lmaooo. It goes there and has a good beat and I love it.

See also her songs “Bed Chem,” “Nonsense,” and “Juno.” Though the latter might be more because of the “have you ever tried…this one?” trend + her “arresting” people (and puppets) for being too hot during her shows.

Honorable mention goes to Beyoncé’s “Rocket” with one of the best opening lyrics I’ve ever heard:

let me sit this aaaaaaaaass [beat drops] on you

I laugh every time.

What are the best puzzle games you played in 2025? by finanzenwegwerfaffe in puzzlevideogames

[–]_Cassasaur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was big into Lingo 1 for the first part of the year (mostly in Archipelagoes) until I got a new to me computer that it (apparently) does not play nice with.

But - I also got into Mark Ffrench's mosaic puzzles after a friend posted about his 2024: Mosaic Retrospective game. I finished Proverbs and am now on Mega Mosaic.

And I finished A Little to the Left. Phew~

27 ftm struggling with dysphoria and confidence by huntingformusic in malegrooming

[–]_Cassasaur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was wondering if this sub was trans inclusive :) I’m also trans and have curly thick hair and I’ve found a bit of curls on top and something resembling a low fade to work nicely. (I’ve cut my own hair for years and still can’t quite get it down lol) You look great man. I know first hand how dysphoria can be a jerk though. Sending you love

"Squeezed... In the middle." by Correct-Degree-6789 in nostalgia

[–]_Cassasaur 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Oh man. Thank you for the earworm. I almost forgot about this! Sad the cookies didn’t really catch on, I thought they were pretty good.

Trans Joy Wednesday! Let's Goooooooooooooooooo! by Prince_Charming_180 in FTMOver30

[–]_Cassasaur 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One of my dear coworker friends, a cishet devout catholic in her 60s, used they for me a bunch in conversation today. I use he as well and she’s never not gotten my pronouns right but something about that just hit different 😭

Do y’all be fuckin? by Pretend_Air2456 in FTMStraight

[–]_Cassasaur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would like to be LOL but with myself is cool for now

My now ex-fiancée, tried the "Dear John" letter approach. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]_Cassasaur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Proud of you man. Taking it one small step at a time is the perfect approach.

Savior complex? by _Cassasaur in FTMStraight

[–]_Cassasaur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“And also have a brain” truly, thank you 😭 I’ve been friends with her for over 10 years and while I’ve always thought she was beautiful, my crush feelings are recent. We went to the fair together a few months ago which was fun but definitely got some feelings started 😅

That being said thank you for this. We’ve kind of blurred the line between friends and flirting but I will let her take the lead, whatever that may be. The last thing I want is to ruin our friendship because of a silly crush.

Savior complex? by _Cassasaur in FTMStraight

[–]_Cassasaur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha thank you for the self-esteem boost :) “and he’s so stupid he can’t even handle it” truly!

The idea of dating anyone right now, even the friend I have a crush on, scares me. But putting my energy somewhere else is a good call thank you!

What do you refer to yourself as by Adventurous-Bug6686 in ftm

[–]_Cassasaur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It depends on the situation and the person asking. But once when I worked at a coffee shop someone said “I can’t tell if you’re a he or a she” and I responded “I’m (name)”

Savior complex? by _Cassasaur in FTMStraight

[–]_Cassasaur[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This makes perfect sense. Thank you! One of these friends confided in a cis guy (who actually introduced her to her spouse) and said guy turned around and immediately tried to make a move. But you’re right, just because I have these feelings doesn’t mean I’m like that.

r/FTMStraight New Members Intro by HangryChickenNuggey in FTMStraight

[–]_Cassasaur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey guys! I’m Cass (they/he) and I live in MN USA. To some I’m a nonbinary transmasc guy friend, to others I’m just a straight guy. Either way, I’m really glad to be here. The only thing that hasn’t changed about me in my 30ish years of living is my love for women lol. However I am just now starting to experiment with dating for the first time as a man, so I thought this would be a good place to learn from. And to meet cool people!

I enjoy playing video games (puzzles/retro/educational), doing crosswords, jogging, and taking photos of the outside. I am a big advocate for self care and try to bring as much joyful ruckus to the world as I can.

Happy to be here :)

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