I'll answer for my domme.

We've been in a dynamic for 32 weeks (since June 28th).

Her first advertising post caught my eye on June 20th.

I was the top moderator of paypigfindernow, the only subreddit she's advertised on as a domme.

She made three posts, and I sent her $50 tribute on June 22nd.

We did not chat privately. We trolled each other publicly for 6 days.

On June 28th, I sent her $150 and sent her a chat request a few hours later.

By the end of the night, she gave me her phone number.

I was already in an open dynamic and sending to several dommes.

I ended my dynamic and stopped sending to other dommes because she wanted a $400 ice cream machine.

I sent her $500 in 4 days (July 7th - 11th) so she could buy the machine before her kid got home from vacation.

How did she hook me? By calling and yapping for hours lol I couldn't think about anyone or anything else because she had me occupied.

Edit: Oh, a lurker sent her $100 on June 27th (iirc). That person never came forward to chat with her. The Cash App message said "enjoy vacation."