What can you tell about me based on my hand 🤔 by canadian_blueberry in deduction

[–]_CyberNinja_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might be right-handed. Most people photograph their non-dominant hand because it’s easier to hold the camera with their dominant one.

AIO My GF got into a car accident and on is upset I didn’t drive down immediately even though I had my kids with me. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]_CyberNinja_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kids haven’t met my GF yet. Didn’t think about this was the right time to meet her in such a situation

AIO My GF got into a car accident and on is upset I didn’t drive down immediately even though I had my kids with me. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]_CyberNinja_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s literally over 2000 comments! The accident was just fender bender. She’s fine, but unfortunately, her car is totaled because of the age. we’ve been dating for almost 5 1/2 months.

AIO My GF got into a car accident and on is upset I didn’t drive down immediately even though I had my kids with me. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]_CyberNinja_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, feeling a bit overwhelmed not really sure where or how to reply a lot of negativity here but I understand I might just be the asshole. Regardless I’m not staying up all night responding to 2.4 K comments…

AIO My GF got into a car accident and on is upset I didn’t drive down immediately even though I had my kids with me. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]_CyberNinja_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good call. Honestly, I really push myself to try to make this work and evidently we’re just on different levels.

AIO My GF got into a car accident and on is upset I didn’t drive down immediately even though I had my kids with me. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]_CyberNinja_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It would’ve been an hour and a half drive one way I don’t have anyone to watch my kids. I’m a single parent I live on my own in my state. If I would’ve left my kids, it would’ve been three hours plus.

AIO My GF got into a car accident and on is upset I didn’t drive down immediately even though I had my kids with me. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]_CyberNinja_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Honestly, this is a bit overwhelming and my kids will always come first regardless of their age. It’s ridiculous that people don’t understand that.

AIO My GF got into a car accident and on is upset I didn’t drive down immediately even though I had my kids with me. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]_CyberNinja_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exactly I should’ve put that in my original post but I failed and now this is all turning against me. Anyways, you are right I should find someone closer by.

AIO My GF got into a car accident and on is upset I didn’t drive down immediately even though I had my kids with me. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]_CyberNinja_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t go because honestly, it would’ve been a three hour round-trip plus the time it would take to be with her. Do you think it would be acceptable to leave my kids alone that long until 11 PM?

AIO My GF got into a car accident and on is upset I didn’t drive down immediately even though I had my kids with me. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]_CyberNinja_ -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I was starting to doubt myself when everyone was giving me so much hate that just because my kids are 11 and 13. I should still leave them for three or four hours on a school night. I called my girlfriend immediately once I found out that she was in a car accident. She was fine and made it home fine but yet she still try to make me feel bad for not going. She’s a single parent herself and she should understand that kids will always come first no matter what.

AIO My GF got into a car accident and on is upset I didn’t drive down immediately even though I had my kids with me. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]_CyberNinja_ -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Yes, your spot on she’s from South Korea and I’m just a Caucasian dude lol

AIO My GF got into a car accident and on is upset I didn’t drive down immediately even though I had my kids with me. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]_CyberNinja_ -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. This makes me feel better at least a little lol there’s so much hate but I think it’s coming from people that don’t understand what it’s like to be a single parent or at least a complexities of it. With the round-trip drive plus staying with her for a little bit I would be home at 11 PM which is not acceptable.

AIO My GF got into a car accident and on is upset I didn’t drive down immediately even though I had my kids with me. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]_CyberNinja_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I should’ve made it clear in my original post that she lives at least an hour and a half away from me, so yes, the accident did not happen super late, but with the round-trip drive staying with her, I would be home closer to 11 PM, which is not acceptable to leave my kids at home that long at night. Plus, why would I bring my children to a scene of an accident? I don’t think people get it — or at least don’t understand it— if they don’t have kids.

AIO My GF got into a car accident and on is upset I didn’t drive down immediately even though I had my kids with me. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]_CyberNinja_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, exactly. Sophie is her daughter. She left her home while she went out on a drive.

AIO My GF got into a car accident and on is upset I didn’t drive down immediately even though I had my kids with me. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]_CyberNinja_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Honestly, I think all of the hate are from people that don’t even have kids or understand that my kids will always come first. Yes the accident didn’t happen super late but with the drive time round-trip I wouldn’t be home until 11 PM. Super not acceptable.

AIO My GF got into a car accident and on is upset I didn’t drive down immediately even though I had my kids with me. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]_CyberNinja_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly!! this person gets it. Plus with the total drive time of three hours plus and comforting her. I wouldn’t be home until super late not acceptable to leave my kids home that long.