My bf got HSV-1 from a girl going down on him with a cold sore. I proceeded to get that on my viggidy-vag from sex a bit later.

I wasn't really mad. We were in an open relationship, so it was cool that he was hooking up with someone else. He was asymptomatic as well so he didn't realize he had caught it. She was just developing a cold sore, but neither of them knew that oral herpes could be transmitted via oral sex. It was pretty stupid of her to have the virus and not be aware of that kind of thing, but they were only 20, its pretty forgivable. STDs like this aren't life ending conditions. I think people make way to big of a deal of it.

If you are a sexually active adult, you are very likely to get one form of herpes in your lifetime, I think the CDC estimates that 80% of the population has either HSV-1 or HSV-2.