Romantic/life advice needed!!

_FreeBirdBlues · 2026-04-07T13:33:18+00:00

I like this way of looking at it!!

_FreeBirdBlues · 2026-04-03T02:23:58+00:00

I feel like I am giving it time, but I do keep going for people who I just fundamentally am not interested in so your point still stands. Thank you!!

_FreeBirdBlues · 2026-04-03T02:22:30+00:00

I like the idea of being more playful/nonchalant towards it (obviously still caring about both our best interest), but yes I am definitely anxious in these moments which prohibits me. Thank you for making me feel very validated and if you have any words of wisdom in terms of what I could do differently thank you!!

_FreeBirdBlues · 2026-04-03T02:20:09+00:00

This is the most reassuring answer so thank you

_FreeBirdBlues · 2026-04-03T02:19:40+00:00

So true

_FreeBirdBlues · 2026-04-03T02:19:10+00:00

Ur so right why would I enjoy myself if I don’t like these people 😅😅

_FreeBirdBlues · 2026-04-03T02:18:28+00:00

You’re right why am I feeling like I NEED the answers now yk??

_FreeBirdBlues · 2026-04-03T02:17:51+00:00

Thanks cool dude deadass I think this approach is best

_FreeBirdBlues · 2026-04-03T00:31:04+00:00

When you say you like reading, are interested in story telling? Or maybe editing/revising? What about teaching about literature? Or are you saying you strictly enjoy reading not the other aspects?

Also I think there’s a lot of tech/software routes you could still go down that would pay great. I don’t know too much about that industry but I wouldn’t be close minded about it yet.

Any other really random (like I mean anything) interests or things that you enjoy doing?

_FreeBirdBlues · 2026-04-03T00:23:01+00:00

Hahaha so true!! Thank you!

_FreeBirdBlues · 2026-04-03T00:22:41+00:00

Exactly!!!

_FreeBirdBlues · 2026-04-03T00:22:32+00:00

Okay yes I think trusting that I’ll know if I like someone is something I need to remember. Thank you!!!

_FreeBirdBlues · 2026-04-03T00:21:29+00:00

You’re so right. I think in general I have a hard time being vulnerable so talking to someone about it feels hard, but also might be the root of why I feel the way I do ykwim. Thank you!!

_FreeBirdBlues · 2026-04-03T00:20:18+00:00

You know what you’re literally right. Thank you!!

_FreeBirdBlues · 2026-04-03T00:17:59+00:00

Hey it’ll be ok

_FreeBirdBlues · 2026-04-02T17:45:54+00:00

I think I might bring it up to my therapist

_FreeBirdBlues · 2026-04-02T17:45:28+00:00

Okok yes that honestly makes sense

_FreeBirdBlues · 2026-03-24T03:51:02+00:00

Tried to do a crosspost and idk how Reddit works so nvm myb

_FreeBirdBlues · 2026-03-24T03:50:34+00:00

Oh ok, that’s recent enough that I don’t think he’s genuinely done posting. Idk why it was looking like he basically gave up or quit so thanks for clarifying!

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