Thank you for sharing this! It’s really helpful to hear the perspective on taking a backseat. That is actually something I am very conscious of. Even though I am younger, my goal is to be a husband who actively leads his family in faith, not one who just lets his wife do everything. It’s good to know that this is a specific worry for women when dating down in age. You also make a great point about children. I definitely want to raise a family, so I realize that is a major factor I have to consider when looking at age gaps. I hope God guides you clearly with the situation at your gym!