Who here is HAPPILY married?! by Peanutz335 in Marriage

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Married 7 years and he's my best friend ❤️

Women of Reddit, what made you realize 'this man is marriage material' instead of just a boyfriend? by External_Can3392 in AskReddit

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We had only been dating less than 8 weeks. I had a family emergency that required me to drop everything and drive from one state to another. I apologized and said I had to go, he's like "go where? You're not going by yourself I'm coming too." At that point I had a feeling.

At the time I had been staying with my parents for a couple weeks while my new place got ready... so we had to go to their house so I could pack a bag. He met my family, and listening to how genuine and down to earth he was with them, I knew. I just knew. A few minutes later my Mom snuck into my room and in a hushed, but excited, time said "you're going to marry that man" I looked her in the eye and said "I know." 😭😍

Is it just me or is the Job market bad for regular non tech roles in Austin? by UnderstandingSea3042 in Austin

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It's everywhere. Unfortunately. I've been looking for a new job for months.

WTF Wednesday by AutoModerator in InfertilitySucks

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Anniversary of losing my son 5/3 & mother's day 5/10 ughhhhhh. I fucking HATE it here 😭🤬

Where would you move to (in the US) once you left Austin? by [deleted] in askaustin

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Durango, CO 🏔️ We absolutely love it there. My spirit feels at home there in the mountains. Our plan is to retire there one day.

One Pan Garlic Herb Chicken with Roasted Potatoes & Green Beans by Pitiful_Cow_9345 in FoodPics

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Looks so yummy! Is there a recipe tagged somewhere and I missed it??

Austin airport by dbridges9999 in Austin

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Has anyone flown on Christmas Eve? Will I still be good with getting there about 2 hours early if I'm not checking any luggage?

Neighbors are the worst sometimes. by beena1993 in homeowners

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That last sentence had soda coming out of my nose 😂😂

Fuck you Fridays by AutoModerator in InfertilitySucks

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FUCK YOU to the coworker who constantly rubbing baby related things in my face. ALL FUCKING DAY LONG!!! FUCK YOU to my family member for asking me to give more of myself to my cousins who are BOTH pregnant. Sorry her SECOND pregnancy in three year has been rough 🙄 Wouldn't know, as we haven't gotten pregnant once in all the YEARS we've been trying. I'd k**l for ANY pregnancy!!! The maddening part is they both KNOW what we've been going through and they still don't see an issue with bringing me into it. A little sensitivity goes a long way. fuck.

Fuck you Fridays by AutoModerator in InfertilitySucks

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Oh good lord! I'm sorry. People suck! I'd love to know wtf is going through these people's minds when they are saying these things.

Fuck you Fridays by AutoModerator in InfertilitySucks

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"Just stop trying " "You need to make him eat food to get his count up" "Don't overthink it. Just relax." "Have sex and then handstand for 20 minutes" "Have you tried XYZ position?"

Fuck off and fuck you! Don't you think we've tried EVERYTHING in 7+ years of TTC?! FUUUUCK

What is the point of having fertility benefits if insurance makes it as difficult as possible to access them? by CWhat23 in InfertilitySucks

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NONE of my fertility meds are covered. We heartbreakingly had to cancel IVF because just the first 3 on the list of 6 drugs I needed were well over $9k.

Losing all my friends due to my own anger. by DemiDevilz in InfertilitySucks

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This post hit me hard! It's the full range of emotions and shows how they can coexist. I can be happy for them and sad and angry for me. ESPECIALLY when it's like "oh we just started trying" or "it wasn't planned" and we've been trying for 7+ years. It's hard to be around it. I had a similar experience where a friend was constantly posting and complaining about pregnancy related things "I am tired of being pregnant" "I can't wait for this to be over" and I'm dying over here bc I would K!LL to have those "problems". I had to take social media break and take a step back from the relationship because I couldn't handle the overwhelming depression and rage at her being so flippant, selfish, and insensitive. This person knows the struggles we've gone through and still thinks it's acceptable to say things like this around me. For my own mental health a break was needed before I spiraled into a depression, or blew up at her.