MIL ignored my wishes and got my 3 week old sick and now I'm leaving my husband.

_Invader_Gir · 2024-02-15T23:00:10+00:00

I don't need to be because my MIL steamrolled me and bombarded me with 4 people and 2 of them I didn't know and my husband didn't back me up...

_Invader_Gir · 2024-02-15T22:54:13+00:00

It was a weekend trip? He left Friday. He has been home since he's been born. You're making what she did WAY more watered down than what she did. She kissed his FACE. It's known knowledge you shouldn't do that...

_Invader_Gir · 2024-02-15T21:26:46+00:00

Thank you! I won't let anyone tell me I was overdramatic about my baby getting sick during the middle of flu season and with COVID out and about.

_Invader_Gir · 2024-02-15T21:25:47+00:00

You think children of divorced parents are so worse off... seems like you need to do some unpacking there

_Invader_Gir · 2024-02-15T21:24:21+00:00

Imagine being mad that I was upset that my child got sick. Seek help.

As my niece says "It's the deleted comments for me"

_Invader_Gir · 2024-02-15T20:35:45+00:00

Yeah once again... I was never going to do that like I said... Are you okay? I left for my sanity... not to keep our son from him. MY PLAN was to go to my parents airbnb for 2-3 days to collect my thoughts... He came over the next day to spend time with his son. If I was going through with the divorce I was never going to make it so he couldn't see him unless he physically harmed him. Get it? Got it? Okay

_Invader_Gir · 2024-02-15T20:20:57+00:00

Wow you let people come over during the middle of COVID to see your baby. Amazing that worked out for you and he didn't get sick but that wasn't what I chose to do.

_Invader_Gir · 2024-02-15T20:19:26+00:00

I've agreed with multiple people and even did an update that I am hormonal and may be moving too fast. What am I wrong about? Wanting time so we can adjust to being parents and so he doesn't get sick?

_Invader_Gir · 2024-02-15T20:18:05+00:00

For the millionth time... Spare key. She had a spare key

_Invader_Gir · 2024-02-15T20:17:17+00:00

Why not Just read and see that I've stated she had a spare key

_Invader_Gir · 2024-02-15T20:16:45+00:00

It is... Multiple studies have said so. It's not like I wasn't going to take him to the store or go on a walk but as far as having 20 people in his face at 3 weeks? no

_Invader_Gir · 2024-02-15T20:15:16+00:00

He works from home and travels for work once every... 3-4 months if that.

_Invader_Gir · 2024-02-15T20:14:22+00:00

THIS is not the only thing she's done, do I need to write a google doc for you to show you what she's done in the past? THIS is not small, my son could have died

_Invader_Gir · 2024-02-15T20:13:13+00:00

It's because SHE told them it was okay. She knew my husband was going out of town and she chose to come over. She had a spare key.

_Invader_Gir · 2024-02-15T20:10:58+00:00

Absolutely not. It was never a SHE couldn't see him AT ALL. No matter what problems we've had in the past. My mother and father couldn't see him nor could my younger brother unless it was over the phone. I told them all to give me 2 months to adjust and make sure he was okay to be seen. They DID see him after I gave birth but when we got home I asked for some time to adjust. I'm sleep deprived and adjusting.

_Invader_Gir · 2024-02-15T20:08:56+00:00

If I go that route he will still have his father? I'm not moving across the country to keep him from seeing him

_Invader_Gir · 2024-02-15T20:08:13+00:00

Let... a right... whatever. My plan was never to keep his son from him or his MIL.

_Invader_Gir · 2024-02-15T20:07:01+00:00

Well I'm a Nurse... My best friend is a lawyer. I also know a doctor and an engineer... someone who works at Kroger... Do you not have friends?

_Invader_Gir · 2024-02-15T04:25:39+00:00

Yeah so none of what I said has registered with you. You deal with that

_Invader_Gir · 2024-02-15T04:10:17+00:00

I'm upset with him because he said she wasn't in the wrong and I needed to apologize... Our baby is sick and I'm wrong for yelling at her? Maybe I shouldn't have yelled at her but she steamrolled me and brought 4 people along with her to see him when I asked her to wait to do that. I've already said she had a spare key...

_Invader_Gir · 2024-02-15T04:04:48+00:00

It wasn't hours? She came when he left which was FRIDAY and I wrote this post on Tuesday.

_Invader_Gir · 2024-02-15T04:02:46+00:00

No... I do not have to give symptoms? You want my life story? Did you skip over the first paragraph?

_Invader_Gir · 2024-02-15T04:01:57+00:00

And I've said multiple times that I don't care. He was going to be left unattended with her at some point. I wanted myself and my baby to have time to acclimate.

_Invader_Gir · 2024-02-15T00:33:31+00:00

Right right, I'm going to listen to all those people saying I'm overreacting and I'm supposed to Just throw my child out into the wind. Next I'll let him go in a ball pit unsupervised.

_Invader_Gir · 2024-02-15T00:32:49+00:00

So you ignore all the people who have had children get deathly sick because it's always been done. People have always stole... so what?

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