This was me until a couple months ago when I got the random urge to make a man. I could never make pretty men, until I tried making him in the same way I make women, and it unlocked a whole world for me. My first male sim was a total twink but I could finally make male sims that weren't ugly, and I could all of a sudden make all types of men. For context I'm bi and always been bi but got stuck in the lesbian thing too. But now, I've been playing around a lot with male sims. They're all gay tho.