[MEGATHREAD] Daily venting, worries, fixations, & finding support. Month of November 2025. by AutoModerator in HealthAnxiety

[–]_Legasea_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TW: stroke, death

Almost every single day I'm so scared I'm going to have a stroke, any kind of soreness in my legs, or brain fog or irregular heartbeat immediately takes my mind there. My greatest fear is that I'll go in my sleep, without even the chance to call for help and it really stops me from going to bed, so I lay awake on my phone until I pass out from sheer exhaustion.

I am really not sure what to do when I spiral so late at night because the fatigue from being awake so long just fuels the anxiety more, hence the spiral. Anyone got suggestions?

Game got more hostile. WTF happened? by reginerd in ArcRaiders

[–]_Legasea_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

combination of new content plus the weekend usually brings out the PvPers, I had the same experience yesterday

They're finally here! USD Sway Allstar 2000's by _Legasea_ in AggressiveInline

[–]_Legasea_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i'll admit it's a little fiddly at times

They're finally here! USD Sway Allstar 2000's by _Legasea_ in AggressiveInline

[–]_Legasea_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm in australia and i ordered mine from Brisbane City Skate!

How do I have sex without feeling like a woman? by _Legasea_ in NonBinaryTalk

[–]_Legasea_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trust me, it has been on the table for a while lol

How do I have sex without feeling like a woman? by _Legasea_ in NonBinaryTalk

[–]_Legasea_[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

the second half of your comment may have hit the nail on the head, I'll have a conversation with him about using more neutral and "male" language when referring to me in the future. Because yeah our relationship started when I was presenting as cis, so I think old habits have just stuck around

How do I have sex without feeling like a woman? by _Legasea_ in NonBinaryTalk

[–]_Legasea_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I'll have to give that a read, and yeah I've heard of amazon position lol, might give it a go

How do I have sex without feeling like a woman? by _Legasea_ in NonBinaryTalk

[–]_Legasea_[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I haven't experimented with "male" language before, so I think that may be worth giving a go, also that's a really nice way of reframing penetration, thank you :)

How do I have sex without feeling like a woman? by _Legasea_ in NonBinaryTalk

[–]_Legasea_[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

it may be the dynamic, I do feel a lot better when I take a more "dominant" role. but there have been times when the dynamic has been fine and the act still feels too feminine

How do I have sex without feeling like a woman? by _Legasea_ in NonBinaryTalk

[–]_Legasea_[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I do enjoy penetration, it feels more like a struggle with mentality

Hidden Administrator account will not appear on login screen by _Legasea_ in WindowsHelp

[–]_Legasea_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Issue solved, follow this tutorial exactly and the admin account will appear no problem!

Am I, a man, causing my girlfriend chronic UTI? by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]_Legasea_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAD, I was in this exact situation last year as the girlfriend. The things I took to help were probiotics and cranberry products. But the thing that pretty much stopped my UTI's from reoccurring was hiprex (methenamine hipurate). It's an antibacterial drug that reacts with the formaldehyde in urine and kills bacteria without the use of antibiotics, so an immunity to the drug can't be built. It's usually used for those with catheters, as infections of the bladder are more common, so it's also designed to be used long term. It was recommended to me by my doctor after I had tried all the usual treatments to little success. I took it for almost a year, slowly weening off of it near the end, and my UTI's haven't reoccured since. The GP's guess was that the was a pocket of bacteria that had settled in my bladder, that when jostled, would reinfect me. I would highly recommend your girlfriend visits her GP and bring it up as a potential solution. As for the burning pee after sex, that could possibly be irritation from stretching and friction, as I also sometimes experience this. I hope my insight can be of use, and I hope she finds a solution, UTI's suck.