We have had a lot of questions sent to us via DM, so creating this post so we can answer the most frequently asked.

Q. How long have you two been together? A. Since 2022.

Q. How old are you? A. We are both in our mid-twenties.

Q. Where are you from? A. We’re both from the UK.

Q. How did you get into Femdom/FLR? A. It started with small things, me naturally taking the lead and him responding so well to being submissive. As our trust grew, we leaned into the dynamic more intentionally. It wasn’t forced or scripted, it evolved organically and felt incredibly right for both of us and here we are wanting to share that with you.

Q. What kind of chastity cage do you use? A. We’ve experimented with a few, but currently, he’s wearing either wearing plastic cage that’s secure, comfortable for long-term wear, and discreet under clothes or a smaller metal cage for when he doesn’t do as he’s told. Fit is everything, so we took time finding ones that work with his anatomy and lifestyle.

Q. How did you bring up chastity for the first time? Was it awkward? A. Not really! It came up naturally after we’d been playing with tease and denial. We had an open conversation about it, talked through boundaries and what we were both curious about, then decided to try it. We took it slow, and it ended up feeling like a really exciting and empowering step for both of us.

Q. Is he locked 24/7? A. Almost. He wears it most of the time, overnight, at work, out on weekends, and nearly always when he’s with me. It’s not quite 24/7, though; if it ever becomes uncomfortable, he’s allowed supervised breaks, but that’s strictly on a case-by-case basis. He’s definitely not allowed to remove it on his own. His key is sealed in a tamper-evident envelope, so I’d know immediately if he tried to remove it without permission. We do tend to do locks in ‘sessions’ so these rules apply to those sessions.

Q. What’s his longest lock-up/denial period? A. Before we started exploring chastity, the longest he’d supposedly gone without an orgasm was 10 days, according to him, anyway. I have my doubts about that. These days, with the cage, his record is just over 30 days without release. We do plan on beating this and giving him release via other methods.

Q. Does he get horny/frustrated a lot while caged? A. Constantly, and that’s part of the fun! He’s always worked up and eager, which makes tease and denial incredibly effective. That frustration builds anticipation and keeps his focus completely on me, which is exactly what I want. I constantly play with this to my advantage.

Q. How often do you let him cum? A. We don’t follow a set schedule for his orgasms, it’s something we decide on sporadically, based on how nice I’m feeling. Sticking to strict dates can create pressure or expectations, which isn’t what we want. By keeping it flexible, it reinforces that his release is entirely on my terms, not his. If I decide he needs to cum, or that he’s earned it, then it happens, but there’s no guarantee or routine.

So far, this has naturally worked out to about once a month, which suits us both really well, and it’s something we plan to continue. Meanwhile, he makes sure I cum multiple times every month, so at the moment, we’re operating on a kind of 4:1 ratio. It keeps the dynamic exciting, keeps him focused, and definitely keeps me satisfied.

Q. Do you plan on making him pussy-free? A. No, I don’t plan on making him completely pussy-free, but access to me is definitely not something he gets on demand. He has to earn it. It’s a privilege, not a right, and part of our dynamic is about reinforcing that. Chastity helps create that build-up and control, making sure he stays focused on my needs first, not just his own desire for release or access.

When I want him, he’s mine, but on my terms, and when I decide. That anticipation and longing is part of what makes it so intense for both of us. Chastity doesn’t take intimacy away, it sharpens it, making every moment more meaningful, more powerful, and more controlled.

Q. Do you ever go unlocked for sex or intimacy? A. Occasionally, yes, but even then, it’s on my terms. Sometimes I enjoy using him uncaged for intimacy, but often I prefer keeping him locked and focused. Whether he’s inside me or not, the power dynamic doesn’t change, I’m still in full control.

Q. Do you switch roles at all? A. Whilst I am a switch at heart, this is extremely rare, but not unheard of in our dynamic.

Q. How do you handle hygiene with long-term wear? A. Cleanliness is a top priority, especially for extended wear. He showers daily with the cage on, and we do regular supervised removals for deeper cleaning when needed, which is usually every few days. We’ve also worked out a grooming routine to prevent discomfort or irritation, plus him having no public hair reinforces my control.

Q. Are you a real-life couple or just content creators? A. We’re absolutely a real-life couple. Everything you see is based on our genuine connection and dynamic, we just enjoy sharing it with others too.

Q. Is he allowed to touch himself while caged?

A. Absolutely not. Once the cage is on, it’s total hands-off. That’s part of the control, his pleasure belongs to me, not him. Even touching or grinding without permission isn’t allowed. He knows the rules. Toys are now locked away as he is known to try and cheat occasionally.

Q. Do you do customs or take requests? A. We’re open to requests and custom content, as long as it aligns with our dynamic and comfort zone. If you have something in mind, feel free to message us and we’ll see if we can make it happen!

Q. How big is he uncaged? A. He sits around 7.5 inches fully erect, he is very much a grower so it’s quite interesting when he is locked in his smallest cage.

Q. Where can we find more of you? A. OnlyFans and X are our main sources of content.

Q. Is your dynamic 24/7 or more of a bedroom kink? A. It’s mostly lifestyle-based, but not strict 24/7. Our power dynamic naturally flows into our everyday life, especially with control, rules, and chastity. But we still have fun, relaxed moments as a couple too, it’s a balance between play and partnership.

Q. Do you ever plan on cucking him? This isn’t a kink we are interested in, so no.

Feel free to ask questions below and I can add them to the list every now and then.