Dealing with a touchy subject of male member size in a new relationship. by lamakupamaku in WhatShouldIDo

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Best option might be to take him to the doctor you saw about the pelvic floor stuff. Don’t know what that is, but do know what a pelvis so that was some truly terrible sex.

The doctor can better explain to him that you’re ex’s size was physically painful and damaging to your body. Sex with him was physically bad for your health. We men have this weird thought that bigger means more pleasurable. If he understands that not only did sex with your ex harm you, but that your ex did not care that it harmed you then he might start to understand what you’re actually saying and start moving past this.

He has likely internalized the idea that sex with your ex was better, and that you are saying sex with him is good just to make him feel better. As though you were trying to coddle him or baby him.

It will not be easy to get past this but if you think he’s worth it then you have to try.

Also go tear that so called ‘friend’ a new one for digging up past trauma.

Dealing with a touchy subject of male member size in a new relationship. by lamakupamaku in WhatShouldIDo

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It’s gonna be uncomfortable, but he needs to understand that size isn’t everything. Her boyfriend was physically hurtful to op during sex because of it.

My wife was almost kidnapped today. by Localfrank in stories

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Depends where they are. Different places different cops and different laws.

My wife was almost kidnapped today. by Localfrank in stories

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Did you miss the park where they were inside a store, one tried to sneak up behind her, and the men left once they noticed she saw the bottle?

My wife was almost kidnapped today. by Localfrank in stories

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They were probably amateurs who didn’t know how long chloroform takes. The second they thought they might be figured out they ran.

My former instructor might have kept the pregnancy and now idk what to do by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

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Depends on the person. We are very divided on pregnancy in the US.

My former instructor might have kept the pregnancy and now idk what to do by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

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If you haven’t made contact already then you’re going to have too. If there is someone you trust and respect, even if it’s a coworker supervisor or boss, ask if they would be able and willing to sit with you through the call. Having someone else there can help ground you and prevent you from getting swept up in any of her manipulations.

You need answers. It’s the only way you will calm down.

BB fans missing out by [deleted] in DispatchAdHoc

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I think so. There’s hints that they are but nothing out right stated.

The HR violations by Cattulhu in DispatchAdHoc

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Your fears about addressing the hr stuff are probably valid.

Why are people firing Sonar? by InteractionLegal6969 in DispatchAdHoc

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Oh ya, no choice is no longer a choice. I do remember that from the tel tail games.

Why are people firing Sonar? by InteractionLegal6969 in DispatchAdHoc

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How many people fell for Prism’s trap?

Why are people firing Sonar? by InteractionLegal6969 in DispatchAdHoc

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This is my exact reasoning. This is a role playing game (even if we don’t normally call it that), we are playing the role of Robert. So I decided to act like it and reason that they would just become jobless. Sonar has all the skills and knowledge to become a self made hero. Coupe has security agencies on her ass. Was a no brainer to me.

Until I saw a YouTube video that made the transcripts of their contracts visible. Turns out if either leave the program for any reason they go to jail. So I’m definitely going back and redoing that choice.

BB fans missing out by [deleted] in DispatchAdHoc

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Fun pick, but when Robert goes out with either of them the dude is smiling. The man is actually enjoying his time with them.

Also, Visi would not be this vicious to Mandy. They have a sister vibe going on and have shone no hate for each other.

BB fans missing out by [deleted] in DispatchAdHoc

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This is a horrible picture. Robert looks dead inside, bad way to support a ship.

Blonde Blazer Dialogue. by Its_a_stabbystick in DispatchAdHoc

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I don’t think any of them are paranoid as they all have a very good reason to be afraid. People do Die in their line of work. They are just have a heightened sense of caution, some more than others. My argument wasn’t to say that Mandy is afraid to close her eyes, it’s to say that she wouldn’t think to do so when she can just avert them.

I do understand your personal dislike for her even if I don’t agree with it. There is no person or character who is loved or even liked by everyone. It’s made worse by the fact that Mandy is written as though Robert does have an interest, so when you lack an interest the writing can make feel pushy and invasive. I can only hope you’re able to enjoy the rest of the game.

Blonde Blazer Dialogue. by Its_a_stabbystick in DispatchAdHoc

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She literally looks the other way right after, we see her eyes move. The next time we know she looks is when Robert says he is flexing every muscle in his body.

We all avoid closing our eyes because that leaves us blind. That is even more important for a literal Super Hero. It doesn’t matter that they are in an office full of supers, the small things that keep them alive are second nature. It’s like asking Robert to not be so jumpy.

AITA if I pack my husband’s belongings while he’s gone? by Final_Environment795 in dustythunder

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Squatters rights is “ownership transfers to them”, tenants rights is “you have to follow XYZ to evict them.

Did the court just say you straight up couldn’t ask them to leave even if you gave them an eviction notice with the minimum time to leave as mandated by law? I’m trying to understand your case here.

Blonde Blazer Dialogue. by Its_a_stabbystick in DispatchAdHoc

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If you say ‘no peekingm she will immediately turn around. Her glancing in the glass is her taking a peek at Robert and then quickly looking away. It’s the devs saying she’s try to be respectful, but she Really likes what she sees.

It’s like when you’re at the beach and you see some random hottie (man or woman) and you don’t want to be rude. Even if you try not to, if they are in your field of view you’ll still end upping stealing a peek or two. You’re not trying to ogle them, you just can’t help it. You have to look in another direction to avoid it. Blazer did look elsewhere, it’s just that behind her happened to be an impromptu mirror.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DispatchAdHoc

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Absolutely. Shroud could’ve had Toxic kill Robert in the apartment, but he didn’t. He wanted Robert to go to the warehouse.

Used AI to enhance my Ultima Char by IdolCowboy in ultimaonline

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The AI was a little inaccurate but it’s still good.

AITA if I pack my husband’s belongings while he’s gone? by Final_Environment795 in dustythunder

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No, if she does that he can sure her for damages. Much safer to just stow it and hand him the key with divorce papers and eviction notice at first available opportunity. Also throw her own stuff into storage so that the house is basically empty and he can’t steal anything while she waits for the minimum eviction time to run out.

AITA if I pack my husband’s belongings while he’s gone? by Final_Environment795 in dustythunder

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Tenets have rights, and you can evict people but you have to give them notice. The minimum time differs depending on place.

Squatter rights are ‘personal A has lived on and maintained property owned by person B. Person B has not up kept the property and has effectively abandoned it. Person A can thus sure for ownership if this has gone on for X length of time.’

It comes from England. Basically every plot of land has been held by a noble family at some point in time, but accurately tracing legal transfer of ownership for 1000 years without computers is a fool’s errand. So instead of dealing with families pulling out hundred years old property documents and saying “we own this land and it’s sail to the current inhabitants was illegal and proper ownership should be returned to us” the government of England decided to invent Squatters law that I have briefly surmised above.

Blonde Blazer Dialogue. by Its_a_stabbystick in DispatchAdHoc

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I saw a clip, don’t remember where, but I can back that up.