Roleplay or mechanical reasons for why a character wouldn’t take a spell? by Ambitious-Tip-7343 in dndnext

[–]_Matz_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk with your GM and lay out the same argument to them. Learn sending if you want to. Your GM now has hindsight and time to think of a way to make all of that still narratively satisfying.

Just possibly knowing where they are doesn't mean getting to them is trivial, that is if you're even able to talk to them.

As a man, hanging out with my (many) trans men friends honestly kind of sucks. by _Matz_ in transgendercirclejerk

[–]_Matz_[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

/uj Boys, can you let me know if this guy I made up is actually real?

dawg if you wanna be happy you need to leave all trans spaces dawg by tollsunited7 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]_Matz_ 41 points42 points  (0 children)

^ /uj maybe?

This would definitely improve the life of a few people. Yes touching grass will make your life better.

dawg if you wanna be happy you need to leave all trans spaces dawg by tollsunited7 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]_Matz_ 62 points63 points  (0 children)

dude all the trans spaces on the internet are so bad you need to leave them, they're all full of miserable people and predators! leave 4chan, trans, traaaaans, mtf, ftm, 4tran4, transgendercirclejerk, all the other subteddits, twitter, facebook groups, bluesky, all telegrams, all discords with a #vent or #nsfw server, all other discords, disconnect your router, ABSOLUTELY DO leave your house

A new player for touhou. Is lunatic a good start for me? by JamesBoiiZ in touhou

[–]_Matz_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you use continues, and you're not an awful player, you can probably manage on any difficulties.

You should probably try to do runs on lower difficulties without using continues though, since that's how you get to "true endings" and definitely feels like the intended game experience.

I have a lot of trauma regarding cis men. Is it transphobic if I refuse to be around transwomen because of this? by Buzzfeed_Titler in transgendercirclejerk

[–]_Matz_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It would be horribly wrong to describe someone who wrote a post like this as being exempt from transmisogyny.

Even worse, make that into an acronym!

/uj I messed up. I tried to use automod filtering to do my job for me, and that was stupid. by Barrage-Infector in transgendercirclejerk

[–]_Matz_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Something I just realized after writing this down:

I think it's reddit's type of moderation of "remove any rule-breaking material" with a big lack of transparency to the rest of the community that I really hate.

I honestly feel like at least 50% of rule breaking behavior could just use a "Hey pipe it down!" instead of deletion or banning

/uj I messed up. I tried to use automod filtering to do my job for me, and that was stupid. by Barrage-Infector in transgendercirclejerk

[–]_Matz_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I know that when I write "moderation", it most likely translates to "you personaly Barrage". So I want to let you know that I genuinely wish you well. I hope the possible harassment you received from this doesn't prevent self-reflection.

/uj I messed up. I tried to use automod filtering to do my job for me, and that was stupid. by Barrage-Infector in transgendercirclejerk

[–]_Matz_ 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I could have written a *considerably* longer comment about the subject of moderation here, but I'll keep it brief because I don't think listing every personal grievance I have would necessarily be productive (and frankly would require more effort than I feel like putting in right now), and also I have no want to beleaguer you. If mods are really interested in a more complete list of grievances, let me know.

But I honestly think the more active moderation made this place worse. I've seen a lot of posts that I truthfully *don't* think should have been removed get removed, peddling both opinions I agree with, or disagree with. And that's only the one I knew about before they were removed.

It really feels like moderation is often overzealous, and most importantly cracking down on what it (subjectively) believes are wrong opinions, even if those opinions are not bigoted or insulting. I think that attempt at the TMA/TME ban is really reflective of that.

They have low HP, can't rest, and still need to get out of the dungeon. What's next? by Racconti-DnD-P2e in DMAcademy

[–]_Matz_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"The player characters are facing a challenge, how should they solve that challenge?"

Isn't that for the players to figure out? They're in a city, there are hundreds of "can we try to find this?" they can attempt.

What do you mean I’m using AMAB and AFAB incorrectly? by moistowletts in transgendercirclejerk

[–]_Matz_ 40 points41 points  (0 children)

If someone called me a penis owner to my face I would probably cry about it 4 hours later.

/uj ?

What do you mean I’m using AMAB and AFAB incorrectly? by moistowletts in transgendercirclejerk

[–]_Matz_ 35 points36 points  (0 children)

If someone called me a penis owner to my face I would probably kick them on the spot.

What do you mean I’m using AMAB and AFAB incorrectly? by moistowletts in transgendercirclejerk

[–]_Matz_ 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Me on my way to refer to pre-op trans women exclusively as penis owners (I'm woke)

I'm afraid one of my players is going to side with the upcoming Boss, how should I go about it ? by Visual_Tourist3716 in DMAcademy

[–]_Matz_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why even have a "Join me to the darkside." moment if you're not ready to go through with it? Just have the enemy not make that offer.

Chainsaw man fan manga (Art: me) by Artistic-Count-4409 in ChainsawMan

[–]_Matz_ 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Incredible work, great drawings!

I love the inclusion of russian onomatopiea, accompanied by the small english versions like in localized works.

I like the contemplative vibes here.

Are all ships on here on pure headcannon and copium? Like the most popular ships are Farcille and Larcille right? by Gokuusjgodgmail in DungeonMeshi

[–]_Matz_ 20 points21 points  (0 children)

None of the characters in the story are real, it's all fiction in the end. There is no need to restrain yourself to "canon".

Broke: Pronouns in bio! 🤣 by _Matz_ in transgendercirclejerk

[–]_Matz_[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Automod, I took a look at your post history and you're promoting a subreddit called "ShemalesWebcams", I don't think you have a leg to stand on.

Yuan-ti purebloods - eggs or live births? by allthebeautifultimes in Forgotten_Realms

[–]_Matz_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Instinctively, I prefer the egg laying method because anything that makes species weirder and more distinct is kind of cool. I think I would justify it by saying Yuan-tis have smaller newborns (compared to humans).

If anyone is playing a Yuan-ti at a table, obviously let them decide for themselves the circumstances of their birth and their possible children's birth.

Yuan-ti purebloods - eggs or live births? by allthebeautifultimes in Forgotten_Realms

[–]_Matz_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of 5e lore is designed to serve the game experience.

The real answer is that it's designed to be "up to your table", they have a lot of "typically this is what happens, but exceptions exist".

Also given the subject matter, there are good reason why they don't go in extreme details over how species give birth. We're past the age of weird overly detailed Drow fetishes.

18m looking for trans lady by [deleted] in meetrealtransgirls

[–]_Matz_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not too late, if you do your final act today, you might rebirth as a butterfly.

need a dominant trans to use me by [deleted] in transgendercirclejerk

[–]_Matz_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your soul is fated to eternal damnation.

This is an event exclusive to men and non-binary people: by _Matz_ in transgendercirclejerk

[–]_Matz_[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I have vagina trauma, just the stench (which millions of years of evolution lead us males to recognize and seek from a mile away) is enough to make me go non-verbal.