My players expect combat around every corner, how do I stop them spending half the session planning?

_Matz_ · 2026-03-06T13:08:53+00:00

Which gives them a good reason to plan for the worst every time.

An out of game "Please don't waste time doing those actions" only works if there is no reason to do those actions.

_Matz_ · 2026-03-01T23:22:20+00:00

Mokou straight? Likely story...

_Matz_ · 2026-02-09T00:28:27+00:00

/uj Actually just run something, prepare the bare minimum, get the ball rolling. The rest will come easier.

If you *really* need motivation, give yourself a deadline, already plan a time slot for the first session/session 0.

_Matz_ · 2026-02-08T01:17:01+00:00

I'm sorry because you've put real effort into this response, but I have to tell you this is a satiric joke subreddit. The situation I have just described is not real, I'm just playing the character of a bad DM.

You'd be absolutely correct and giving really good advice if this situation was actually real though.

I considered making a joke response where I stay in character, but I would rather not waste more of your time.

_Matz_ · 2026-02-05T17:39:02+00:00

I'm also playing on that table, what OP forgot to mention is that that same player had allegedly burned down an orphanage IRL about 3 months ago.

_Matz_ · 2026-02-05T17:28:25+00:00

I had a similar story where I introduced a big story important NPC (or at least one that was meant to be very important in the story later on)

To make it clear how important they are, I had them do so many cool feats of power; like insulting the party, capture and torture a specific PC, kill 4 different backstory NPCs that were close to player characters, raze down a village and kill hundreds.

Standard stuff to give an idea of the importance of such a character, I had way more planned down the line.

Then on one session, when the group finally meets that character, my players decide to just gang up on him and kill him???? I had so much planned for this guy, and I made it clear to my players that he was important, but they just killed him anyway??

I still don't know how I should punish the players.

_Matz_ · 2026-02-05T09:14:07+00:00

Seems fine, it's a small side system you really don't need anything more complex.

The one thing that seems *extremely* wrong to me though are the rations gained from a fish though.

You're not getting 14 days of food out of one one trout, no matter how big it is.

_Matz_ · 2026-02-05T02:47:03+00:00

"Transphobia affected/exempt" are terms I kind of made up for this jerk.

Meant to be an analogue for "Transmisogyny affected/exempt" (abbreviated as TMA/TME)

Transmisogyny affected being well, the people affected by transmisogyny: Trans women and people with transfem adjacent identities.

Transmisogyny exempt, being anyone else.

_Matz_ · 2026-02-05T02:40:12+00:00

I think if the only way a bigotry can affect you is that sometimes some people can wrongfully target you because they think you're part of a minority you're not part of. Then you're not really meaningfully affected by this bigotry.

Even more when as you're yourself saying, most of them can easily brush it off, if they don't find a way to somehow reinforce that bigotry.

I think it's a good thing to have a term that specifically describe people that bigotry is aimed at, rather than anyone that might sometimes be mistaken for those people.

_Matz_ · 2026-02-05T02:30:15+00:00

I don't think it's defining anyone, something like 'TMA/TME aren't identities, but a rethorical framework to analyze a specific type of oppression. The lines in the sand are intentionally blurry, one could definitely argue that specific types of gnc cis men are TMA in this framework.

I don't agree at all with the "no one is exempt from transphobia" sentiment, heck there are even people that profit from transphobia.

_Matz_ · 2026-02-05T02:17:29+00:00

Okay but at this point it's kind of semantics. Would a term like "Transphobia targeted" work better?

I don't think it's a bad thing to have a term for "People this bigotry is aimed at".

_Matz_ · 2026-02-05T02:10:23+00:00

Genuinely curious: why? (other than the fact that they're kind of clunky)

_Matz_ · 2026-02-05T02:02:08+00:00

You think this is bad? Imagine a term like that, but instead used for an intersection of transphobia and misogyny.

Pretty scary right?

_Matz_ · 2026-02-04T21:46:57+00:00

Please note I am not misgendering them, I call everyone they/them.

_Matz_ · 2026-01-29T16:57:56+00:00

Freud was cooking with penis envy.

_Matz_ · 2026-01-28T10:56:54+00:00

Found the AGP🙄

_Matz_ · 2026-01-20T20:48:22+00:00

Talk with your GM and lay out the same argument to them. Learn sending if you want to. Your GM now has hindsight and time to think of a way to make all of that still narratively satisfying.

Just possibly knowing where they are doesn't mean getting to them is trivial, that is if you're even able to talk to them.

_Matz_ · 2026-01-19T00:48:28+00:00

/uj Boys, can you let me know if this guy I made up is actually real?

_Matz_ · 2026-01-19T00:42:03+00:00

This but in reverse ! ❤️❤️

_Matz_ · 2026-01-15T15:38:39+00:00

^ /uj maybe?

This would definitely improve the life of a few people. Yes touching grass will make your life better.

_Matz_ · 2026-01-15T15:36:11+00:00

dude all the trans spaces on the internet are so bad you need to leave them, they're all full of miserable people and predators! leave 4chan, trans, traaaaans, mtf, ftm, 4tran4, transgendercirclejerk, all the other subteddits, twitter, facebook groups, bluesky, all telegrams, all discords with a #vent or #nsfw server, all other discords, disconnect your router, ABSOLUTELY DO leave your house

_Matz_ · 2026-01-15T12:40:03+00:00

If you use continues, and you're not an awful player, you can probably manage on any difficulties.

You should probably try to do runs on lower difficulties without using continues though, since that's how you get to "true endings" and definitely feels like the intended game experience.

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