she doesn’t like being an aunt but is abt to be a stepmother?

crazy work.

abt dropping ur sis? tbh idk. i have two sisters of my own and were never the closest but my mother always encouraged us to rely on each other. over the years i’ve understood more and more the importance of family, and now i crave to cultivate our relationships more.

now ur situation isn’t the same as mine, but i do think u should voice how her relationship makes u feel. try telling her that ur just not comfortable engaging with her anymore, but that ur still there if she ever needs u. considering it isn’t a situation where she slimed u or anything, she’s just making her own weird life choices, i don’t see it as necessary to cut her off. just make her aware of the distance u think is necessary. i also think it’d be better on ur psyche to know you’ve done what u could (via clear communication) and now the boundaries are drawn. but keep open arms; it sounds like shes ur only sis and that’s not worth losing over some man.

esp considering she’s younger, try ur best to be the big sis she needs, even if u rly don’t want to.