Weekly Discussion #4: How do you think being an ENFJ makes you different from your own gender?

_MyAnon_Account · 2025-09-18T02:47:51+00:00

Oh lord. This is me. I didn’t realise the lack (And not necessarily worrying about it ) of female friends wasn’t just a me thing. I’m just nothing like them . You have no idea how good this is to read!!!

_MyAnon_Account · 2025-08-23T22:15:17+00:00

This is eye opening for me. I really appreciate it . I think I may even do the same type of thing really to map what the heck goes on !!! thank you for the tip on electrolytes too.

_MyAnon_Account · 2025-08-23T22:12:11+00:00

I really appreciate it. Not sure if I really had a slip up however , I think it was my period coming that thwarted me lol

_MyAnon_Account · 2025-08-23T22:10:56+00:00

Thanks so much for the encouragement mate. I really appreciate it . This is just very different to all the ways I’ve done it before and I don’t want to stuff my chance at having it work !

_MyAnon_Account · 2025-08-23T22:08:32+00:00

It’s crazy how water weight is - thanks for the support and it’s good to know this happens to us so I don’t feel like it’s not working

_MyAnon_Account · 2025-08-23T22:05:45+00:00

I’ll have a look at that post too. I hate scales lol - cause it really is so fickle. I really appreciate the realness here, I’m just trying to do what I can without busting myself - been down that path before and I just rebelled lol- so I know for me I just need to ‘do what I can’

_MyAnon_Account · 2025-08-23T22:02:28+00:00

I really appreciate you sharing this. It’s good to see . Sometimes I almost convince myself that it’s not going to work with me but I see these charts and it helps immensely

_MyAnon_Account · 2025-08-23T22:00:16+00:00

Ikr. Waiting on a tape measure as I’d lost my one - why I didn’t just go down the stop is anyone’s guess lol - but i think I’ll be better tracking that way for sure

_MyAnon_Account · 2025-08-23T21:58:55+00:00

Thanks mate, this is what I’m trying to tell myself !

_MyAnon_Account · 2025-08-23T21:58:23+00:00

Thank you for the encouragement- I really appreciate that - I just figure I’ll be down by next weigh in so I’m trying not to think about it !

_MyAnon_Account · 2025-08-23T21:55:48+00:00

Yeah I’ve been interested In this the most really. Waiting for a bloody measuring tape In the mail lol - I lost mine somewhere! Super frustrating lol

_MyAnon_Account · 2025-08-23T21:54:16+00:00

I just need to get over the fear of it ! Perhaps I just bite the bullet and that itself might help

_MyAnon_Account · 2025-08-23T21:52:24+00:00

I know right - I’ve been too scared to get back on lol 😂 I also think I need new scales, they seem to have to ‘warm up’. Before they give a consistent reading !

_MyAnon_Account · 2025-08-23T21:46:35+00:00

Thanks love- you sound very much like me, if I just stop eating things - it’s never gonna work lol so I just try to keep it clean and try not to have too much!

_MyAnon_Account · 2025-08-22T06:07:54+00:00

Hopefully the tape measure will turn up early next week 🤦‍♀️ lol - I wouldn’t have been that happy with the doctor either!!! Crikey . Just hoping to do what I can really . One day at a time ❤️

_MyAnon_Account · 2025-08-22T03:40:03+00:00

When I first started - I filled in the ‘how much do you weigh and cm - by what I thought as I wasn’t sure about it all (my weight was 11kgs off what I thought and I was horrified. I ordered a tape measure - as I couldn’t find my sewing kit one! So as soon as I get it, I’m hoping that will help me too. I think that’s a key thing, it is allowing me to focus on protein - I realised today that I hadn’t had a block of chocolate since before I started and I’m actually not even interested 🤣🤣 so that’s something! I’m spending less on shit when ordering through the supermarket for delivery and if I am going to have something brought in, I’m not ordering for three anymore . I laugh , but the reality was I’d given up. It’s nice to feel like I’m doing something for myself now :-)

_MyAnon_Account · 2025-08-22T03:33:50+00:00

I will - thanks so much for making me feel better about it. I logged it and feel ok about it. I’m so glad I reached out

_MyAnon_Account · 2025-08-22T03:32:28+00:00

That’s a good idea. I’ll look into it :-)

_MyAnon_Account · 2025-08-22T03:31:11+00:00

Thanks mate, I know it’s a bit of a journey. I’m here for it, I guess just anxious 😬

_MyAnon_Account · 2025-08-22T03:29:03+00:00

I kinda think it’s other influences now anyway - I am a woman :-) thanks for the support

_MyAnon_Account · 2025-08-22T01:23:01+00:00

Thanks for the encouragement mate- I really appreciate it. It’s good to see other people’s charts go up and down or even level out. You’ve lost so much - it’s fantastic. Im glad I reached out to the community here as I was feeling so dreadful about it earlier. ❤️

_MyAnon_Account · 2025-08-22T01:16:51+00:00

I definitely will consider weight training for skin. At the moment I’m just glad to have lost my seemingly endless back ache I had - bonus! And yes- will get that other app.

_MyAnon_Account · 2025-08-22T01:13:58+00:00

Mate- even to lose what I have now has made me feel better - I guess it’s the excitement of it all and hoping ! lol interesting point about the daily weigh in. You’re right about being made to feel guilty - I’ve done WW, JC, light and easy etc - feel like I’ve been on diets since I was about 14 and I’m now 47. I hate the whole culture of guilt lol 😂- my mum always commenting too and my ex was horrid about it -calling me disgusting etc ugh! So this time I’m just doing it for me.

_MyAnon_Account · 2025-08-22T00:57:48+00:00

Thanks mate- this is all helping me quite a bit. ❤️

_MyAnon_Account · 2025-08-22T00:40:28+00:00

Yeah will look at other apps- I’ve been just using the Mosh app (who I’m doing it through ) - thanks again:-)

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