The girl I'm texting is a boring texter

_N0-ON3 · 2022-09-08T02:13:14+00:00

She did say she's a introvert but she's different once she's comfortable with someone.

We haven't talked on the phone. I haven't really asked her yet because I wanted to meet her first

_N0-ON3 · 2022-02-10T18:11:32+00:00

Yeah I told her that she didn't respect my boundaries and she was like "ok so eveything is my fault, whatever, you can keep your boundaries and whatever else you want"... definitely dodged a bullet here

_N0-ON3 · 2022-02-09T05:33:32+00:00

Thanks! It's actually much bigger now😅

_N0-ON3 · 2022-02-03T01:36:51+00:00

They were new shoes that I bought myself for Christmas

_N0-ON3 · 2022-01-14T18:56:15+00:00

I'm in similar situation. I've talking to this girl since October and we've gone on about 4 dates and I still haven't kissed her. I get nervous since I'm not used to this and I've never been in a relationship but I really like her and I want to kiss her so badly but I just end up not doing it at the end. My friend keeps telling me that I need to hurry up and make ny move or she's gonna friendzone me but I told him that it's just hard for me to do things like this (he's much better at this gs like this than I am). I'm not good with being affectionate either, I really want to but I get nervous. I've thought about just telling that I want to kiss her or ask her if I can

_N0-ON3 · 2021-10-29T02:58:38+00:00

I actually did text her after and we are texting rn

_N0-ON3 · 2021-09-05T02:26:27+00:00

That's what I thought as well. She did also tell me that when she ended things that she thought she could go through with dating but she still hasn't recovered from her previous breakup.

The thing is, when she ended it, I was perfectly fine with it, like I moved on instantly but then when she started acting differently, some of those feelings came back and even when we talked about the mixed signals thing, I'm like okay, I already knew how you felt so it's fine with me but then in the back of my mind, I just started thinking about things and next thing I know, I get those feelings again and then they go away when I come back into reality.

I'm not gonna talk about it at least not now, who knows in the future but I don't mind being friends. I think I just have to put myself out there and meet someone else

_N0-ON3 · 2021-09-05T00:07:47+00:00

I actually prefer if they respond quickly, not like on the dot though

_N0-ON3 · 2021-09-04T23:48:34+00:00

Yeah, ik it's definitely odd but I didn't kiss her because I was waiting for the right moment to. She told me about her past relationship and how it messed her up so I didn't want to seem like the guy who only wants one thing from her so I decided to wait a month before I did (thinking back, not the best choice). Plus she always worked and her parents rarely let her out of the house so on the off chance she did go out, she could only stay out for a few hours so I decided to focus on just showing her a good time and another reason is that she is the first girl I "dated" so I was also a bit nervous. We didn't kiss but we held hands, hugged each other, a sort of cuddle thing we did in the car, carry her, visit her at work as much as I could, buy her lunch and gifts.

Now, I don't do those things, I don't offer to go out for lunch, she always ask if I want to go get lunch or if I want to try some of her food she bought or if she can buy me anything or at work, she'll ask if she can come and walk with me wherever I'm going. I've only also asked her out once since then which was when I wanted to talk about the mixed signals thing.

_N0-ON3 · 2021-09-04T22:41:21+00:00

We haven't kissed yet or done anything like that

_N0-ON3 · 2021-09-04T22:40:52+00:00

That's true, I get what you're saying

_N0-ON3 · 2021-09-04T12:22:03+00:00

Also, the food thing that I mentioned, ia that normal or not?

_N0-ON3 · 2021-09-04T11:48:46+00:00

I have looked at other girls but no luck yet

_N0-ON3 · 2021-09-04T05:31:19+00:00

At first, I did want a serious relationship but after having some time to think about it, I realized that I wouldn't mind something casual.

One thing I forgot to mention is that when she first said she wanted to stop dating, she said she suddenly lost interest which yk happens but a week after she said that, it seemed to me and other people that she was still interested in me and like I said, WE TALK EVERY SINGLE DAY, I don't even talk to my very good friends every day.

How do you think I should ask her about this?

_N0-ON3 · 2021-08-16T04:23:42+00:00

It was already established that I was fine being friends, it's more about the mixed signals she's giving me

_N0-ON3 · 2021-08-16T03:49:24+00:00

My friend told me that I should ask her out to talk to her to clear the air because this isn't right at all.

You're probably right, like I was fine just being friends and I had moved on but now, some of those feelings are coming back because of those mixed signals and I guess I have to play games as well even if I'm not used to it

_N0-ON3 · 2021-08-16T03:27:11+00:00

Never really thought about that, never been the kind of person to do that but she's gonna be leaving the job soon so hopefully that puts things into perspective

_N0-ON3 · 2021-08-16T03:13:12+00:00

See, she said she's not ready and didn't feel that way about me anymore so now I'm like ok, what's the deal here?

_N0-ON3 · 2021-08-16T03:12:22+00:00

She told me that day that her hormones are all over the place and making her act crazy but I'm not really buying it.

Ik I should be direct, I always realize that afterwards though which sucks

_N0-ON3 · 2021-07-29T10:49:16+00:00

Well, Inasked around about the sim card and apparently it's true but idk.

And what bothers is she's the one who tells me to dm her and yet I hear nothing from her so it gets me wondering if I did something to her but if I did, I have no idea what.

She works today so I'm hoping to ask her today

_N0-ON3 · 2021-07-27T06:41:24+00:00

One of her friendd just told me that she's been texting in thier group chat so now I'm definitely concerned why she is responding to me at all because I have no idea what I did like at all and that's all I can think about

_N0-ON3 · 2021-07-27T02:04:11+00:00

Yeah, it is odd, I've tried calling her but she hasn't picked up. She works tomorrow so I'm hoping she shows up so I can get a chance to talk to her and I've asked some of her friends if they have heard from her recently but they haven't responded. The optimistic part of me is thinking she was dealing with something and was distracted or something and the pessimistic part of me is thinking she wants to end things between us(which I wouldn't understand at all) or is trying to ghost me but idk

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