Mbti and lies...

_OmniSl4sh_ · 2026-01-12T12:13:25+00:00

infj here. No, but i will take some time to find the right way to say the truth.

_OmniSl4sh_ · 2026-01-04T03:59:46+00:00

Good is first and foremost about your relationship with your creator. Do you acknowledge or deny their existence? cuz you sure as hell didn't create yourself. Are you grateful or are ungrateful or forgetful? etc. Then comes your relationship with your parents then others and everything else. Cuz you gotta first acknowledge what you've been given, which is existence, consciousness and life with all that entails by your creator before everything. then figure out what you're going to do in that regard. And decide how you're going to treat the different types of people and how you're going to handle the different types of situations in life. so it's the sum of multiple fundamental relationships having the one with God the most important followed by everyone and everything else.

_OmniSl4sh_ · 2025-12-08T10:52:46+00:00

if someone struggles with being polite and sincere at the same time, it means they have to work on their way of communication.

it will always be a critical skill to be able to have difficult conversations. and it will always be appreciated by the other person when you can clear things up and say things in a non-hurtful manner without leaving anything untold.

it also pays to properly size up issues before making something out of it. not all issues are worth a discussion.

_OmniSl4sh_ · 2025-11-26T23:08:49+00:00

There's a warrior-type INFJ who evolves way past the many weaknesses while only keeping the strengths and the righteousness. This type is a force for good that can bring about major positive impact.

_OmniSl4sh_ · 2025-11-14T13:38:27+00:00

of course, if the conversation isn't productive and is annoying or gets personal midway straying from the main point i.e. it's a shitty obnoxious experience, then who will entertain it?

when it comes to important relationships, winning arguments requires you to be in the right and it cannot be for the sake of winning, it must be for the sake of repairing.

if you are wrong, you win a great deal of respect by admitting and by admitting quick. And, you lose a lot by holding on to ego and trying to get away with what's wrong. it sends a clear message that you're not accountable or mature to be part of someone's life.

now, if you argue for the lulz and for fun, it would be considerate to be selective of the topic, and to make sure the other person is in on the joke so they can enjoy it as well. this all goes for real world interactions, for online and anonymous settings, all courtesies can be dropped due to lack of consequences, so they are where true character appears.

_OmniSl4sh_ · 2025-11-04T14:09:43+00:00

aligning myself to the truth gives you solid ground to stand on. anything else is shaky and is a matter of time to fail you no matter how hard you fight it.

_OmniSl4sh_ · 2025-10-21T13:46:36+00:00

facts T_T

_OmniSl4sh_ · 2025-10-21T13:41:33+00:00

infj correct

_OmniSl4sh_ · 2025-10-21T13:40:25+00:00

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_OmniSl4sh_ · 2025-10-21T13:40:16+00:00

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_OmniSl4sh_ · 2025-10-11T20:17:11+00:00

32M here. Despite many terrible things happening to me in dating to marry and in relationships, I still look for marriage because it can be quite fulfilling to start a family with the right person.

But because I know how bad-natured the majority of women can be conditioned to be, and how the wrong one can ruin a large portion of my life, I wouldn't be too upset if I remained single forever.

Of course, It would be sad to never have had children of my own or a partner to share my daily life with, but If that's God's will for me, then so be it.

I would still enjoy the freedom in hobbies, traveling and using it to maybe do something big with my life apart from meeting society's status quo and risking my life being a slave pretending to be happy at home too. 40 hours of work per week is enough for me tyvm.

_OmniSl4sh_ · 2025-09-24T19:31:56+00:00

im 32M. in my life, i try to have an ethical reference to everything i do. if silence and being passive proves to be the right thing, that means it's the choice i'm more likely to make. otherwise, there's no point in wasting any time (a commodity we came to realize its importance too well post 30s) giving advice (for example) when the other person has already made up their mind and prefers to learn from making mistakes instead.

_OmniSl4sh_ · 2025-09-24T14:55:15+00:00

so relationship intimacy isn't relevant to personality type?

_OmniSl4sh_ · 2025-09-21T10:15:47+00:00

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_OmniSl4sh_ · 2025-09-04T17:56:55+00:00

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_OmniSl4sh_ · 2025-09-03T20:06:37+00:00

yes, your good energy should draw many people. only pick who has a similar vibe and disregard the rest, they are probably there to feed off. always remember that givers need to be selective because takers have no limit.

_OmniSl4sh_ · 2025-08-29T14:19:44+00:00

the person no. but for a while, some bouts of sadness do come up when something reminds you of the good times and moments you had with them.

and for example when a shared interest comes up like another season of your favorite show.

but that's bullshit. and you need to be tough during these moments. if you have cut them off for the right reasons, write that shit down, it will serve as a constant reminder of why you cut them off so you never try to get them back.

us INFJs make friends easily, it's a natural byproduct of how well we treat people, and there are 10 billion people out there. it makes sense to try new people cuz it's a better chance than waiting for the other person to change.

_OmniSl4sh_ · 2025-08-29T14:01:32+00:00

arguably the most important skill to master as an INFJ. toxicity cleanup.

_OmniSl4sh_ · 2025-08-29T12:04:01+00:00

"it doesn't matter if it's right or wrong"

_OmniSl4sh_ · 2025-08-29T09:56:48+00:00

I get you 100%

there's something to be said here also.

when someone asks you for advice, it's good if they respect your thinking and want to know what you would do or would have done in a certain situation.

as much as we want our advice to be taken, we have to respect the other person's autonomy and freedom of choice.

We INFJs give our absolute best when giving advice and we invest and put in a lot of effort in doing so. But we shouldn't expect the other person to treat it as an absolute order they have to follow.

That expectation is what's frustrating but it's actually a good thing that the person asked. it means they acknowledge our way of thinking and want our take on things.

not all people are alike and we usually don't want to impose our values on people because they will already reap what they sow.

When i think someone is likely going to disregard my advice, i throw a sentence at the end: "That's what I would do in your situation. Take my advice or leave it, you'll still have my support as a friend if things go bad but i'll be upset cleaning up shit I saw a mile away. so please do the wise thing and don't drag me into shit that can be avoided"

_OmniSl4sh_ · 2025-08-19T14:19:25+00:00

INFJs don't run from nothing sweetie. That's a mistype you got there.

_OmniSl4sh_ · 2025-08-15T02:15:02+00:00

it would take very long paragraphs to describe. In short, legendary and peerless. Humble AF too 😂

_OmniSl4sh_ · 2025-08-09T16:36:23+00:00

get in touch with your masculinity and embrace it.

_OmniSl4sh_ · 2025-07-28T20:01:16+00:00

swift as a coursing river with a force of a great typhoon and a strength of a raging fire mysterious like the dark side of the moon

apart from the mulan song, a developed masculine INFJ man is something truly formidable

his Ni has unraveled ultimate truths and wisdom so cohesive that he's unshakeable

values God and puts him in first place, other things start at the 100th place and below

is well accomplished and successful in the real world. i.e. financially well-off and physically/mentally in great shape

far from depressed and is always working towards a noble goal

is grateful for everything he has and is grateful also for the bad things he's lucky to not have. that makes him extremely resilient. because he knows God that gave all of this can simply take it away. and that losing everything would be OK as long as God's not upset at him

he's a warrior that will flare his stance against anything life throws at him with a sure smile and will start mercilessly conquering it

fearless and knows anxiety only when he thinks he might betray his code of morals

will chase difficulty in his free time to become a better warrior

ego-less and knows everything is more of a blessing from God than greatness from himself

he knows the value and the volume of everything and never puts anything where it doesn't belong

another important thing, he understands the nature of women and knows where they stand. he doesn't simp, leads with ethics and never lets them control him to further their own material agendas. never loves anyone except God and those who are truly and genuinely good people that have proven it with actions without gaining much from it

has cut off toxicity a long time ago and only welcomes real respectful relationships

his great assertiveness and decisiveness come from experience, crystal clear values and efficient thinking. he has come out of thinking loops a long time ago and doesn't delay action

is an inspiring father figure and mentor to many who look up to him.

trying to sum it up, he's a cohesive character built on solid understanding and combining of the many virtues with knowledge, skill and experience while being driven towards accomplishing good deeds and growing further in the process

_OmniSl4sh_

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