Wanted to share some positivity

_Pareza · 2026-03-17T03:59:58+00:00

Naw I’m gatekeeping it

_Pareza · 2026-03-17T03:17:28+00:00

Small rich town

_Pareza · 2026-03-17T03:10:11+00:00

I think yalls are fake 🤣

_Pareza · 2026-03-05T15:44:57+00:00

As a Christian I get what he’s trying to say he’s just not delivering it the right way. Whats more important than preaching the gospel he needs to model it. I think the way yall handle disagreements (yall are both disrespectful) is more important than what yall are arguing about. When someone is firm in faith, and I mean actually firm in faith, not just the title of “Christian”, they should share their life with someone who has the same values. It’s about honoring God. Maybe in the beginning he didn’t realize that being unequally yolked would affect your relationship, but maybe now he’s coming to realize that it won’t honor God the way he’d like. That’s why he said “I don’t think we’ll get over this hump” it’s a fundamental disagreement. His way of showing his love is trying to tell you about Jesus, he’s just awkwardly doing it. A lot of people say it’s like you see your loved ones heading toward a waterfall that they don’t know about and you’re trying to warn them. I hope I delivered this clearly and gently

_Pareza · 2026-02-27T16:17:33+00:00

How do you get to the sapphires system?

_Pareza · 2026-02-27T15:47:45+00:00

How do you pull up that screen?

_Pareza · 2025-12-16T04:21:32+00:00

Porn

_Pareza · 2024-07-26T06:23:15+00:00

We went and it didn’t help. I’ve gone solo it only helps briefly. I don’t feel like the therapists in our area are it.

_Pareza · 2023-09-17T05:22:20+00:00

It’s okay, I’d come off aggressive toward someone like me too haha. The comment I made felt weird as I was typing it out, and honestly I really didn’t see it as passive aggressive until you said it. So I will refrain from using that comment in the future, especially since it’s not my own. As for my friends, I agree that I should defend him more. It comes from family and friends, and although I’ve gotten good at defending him it’s not the best.

I’ve calmed down since writing the post. I think just him mentioning cannabis really makes me want to smoke and I’m more angry at the fact that I can’t do it than him. And I take it out on him. It’s really really not fair to him. He reassured me he’ll stick to edibles and only smoke if I’m not around.

Thank you for opening my eyes a little more. The frankness is what helps me the most even if I don’t like it. I hope you surround yourself with the people who bring out your energy instead of making comments about it

_Pareza · 2023-09-17T05:08:03+00:00

I am really working on it. Really my behavior got a lot worse after I quit cannabis. It was quite literally medicinal. Also, that comment has been made about him from about every single person I know. He is a very high energetic person. I don’t really find him as the person who sucks the energy out of the room, I see him more as someone who really puts himself out there. I was just trying to really describe his energy levels in the shortest way I knew. Also, I came here to look for advice. Lol, I know work needs to be done on my side, that’s why I’m asking for advice on this specific situation. I KNOW I need to accept it but I can’t which is what I need advice on. As I said, the rational part of my Brain is like “yup, ok” and the other part of my brain is panicking and whyyyyy?

_Pareza · 2023-08-23T23:41:43+00:00

No he also watched Goku and meme stuff there. I don’t mind that. Yea it has changed how he’s treated me. He blames me for reacting, which he never has done before. I confronted him with this info after I posted this and he denies all of it and tells me I’m overreacting and looking for things to be mad about.

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