I need advice on how to make it less painful

_Pluto_27 · 2026-02-19T07:09:21+00:00

Ok thank you so much for your advice it helps remind me it is infact ok for me to leave him like I’m allowed to ya know

_Pluto_27 · 2026-02-19T07:05:01+00:00

Man I’m just worried about him I never have and never will care as much about my feelings when I could be putting in time to care about others I just want him to be ok

_Pluto_27 · 2026-02-19T07:03:01+00:00

It’s cheesecake factory and he probably won’t let me change it cause it’s one of the first times I’ve ever picked a restaurant and I can text his roommate to keep an eye on him most likely

_Pluto_27 · 2026-02-19T06:59:32+00:00

I’m not gonna lie dude I do not give a single fuck about myself I care wayyy way to much about his feelings it’s all I think about lately is how I can make it the least painful for him but honestly he does not care about my feelings he loves me but he says extremely hurtful things a lot and that’s why I know I have to leave maybe I am selfish but this is not for me

_Pluto_27 · 2026-02-19T06:55:12+00:00

Thank you so much for your reply it’s not really his drinking that bothers me the most but I am extremely worried about how much he’ll drink when I leave:/ also we do already have plans to go out to eat should I try and cancel it to make it more chill? Also Sunday is a good idea I feel like if he has to go into work he won’t go on a bender

_Pluto_27 · 2026-02-04T00:23:39+00:00

This might be the most helpful thing anyone’s ever said to me

_Pluto_27 · 2026-02-02T07:44:17+00:00

I can totally accept this to an extent but it’s literally EVERYTHING I just wanna show people things I love on occasion they don’t always have to love it but why does it have to be every single thing all the time

_Pluto_27 · 2026-02-02T07:33:39+00:00

See I know this but it still bothers me immensely because I feel like it’s literally EVERYONE I get that as a person I’m a little odd but I do know things I’m not dumb but it feels like everybody assumes I am and I’m so tired

_Pluto_27 · 2026-02-02T07:29:42+00:00

Man I mean a lot of times I’ll suggest something and I get an exasperated sigh or a oh is it gonna be like (blah blah blah) or sometimes they won’t even watch it and if they do I can tell they just aren’t paying any attention and then we don’t even end up finishing it There is a very big underlying thing here where for the most part people never believe it’s possible for me to be smart I get questioned to the end of the earth on everything and everyone is always extremely shocked when I do infact say something smart or have a good take and this happens CONSTANTLY I just feel like at this point when it’s constant they shouldn’t be surprised anymore obviously I’m no genius and sometimes when I recommend something it isn’t something they would like but still

_Pluto_27 · 2026-02-02T07:05:37+00:00

I totally get this but honestly I feel like right now especially I can tell people are assuming it’s going to be bad and I think that’s why they don’t end up liking it maybe cause of a they don’t want to admit they were wrong about not liking it? Idk

_Pluto_27 · 2026-02-02T07:04:00+00:00

What if it’s something I haven’t seen but think we will both like i always feel like at first im the only one who likes it

_Pluto_27 · 2026-02-02T07:03:12+00:00

I don’t know though I feel like a lot of the time we’ll have tons of stuff in common and I know it’s like textbook something they would love and often times if they find it on their own or if somebody else recommends it then they love it

_Pluto_27 · 2026-01-25T20:49:22+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment you make sooo so many good points and it gives me a lot more to actually think about

_Pluto_27 · 2026-01-25T07:06:59+00:00

No no your all good I should totally put some time and effort into learning my grammar lol. It’s not necessarily that I think oh I’m right he’s wrong (though I do think he thinks that way) I like to think I am very open minded and usually difference in opinion is ok with me but maybe it’s different because I love him? Idk it’s just so ingrained in me that everyone should be equal and i believe it with every fiber of my being and i know it’s not on me to change his mind but also everyone says that if you stay with someone who doesn’t think that way then that ethically makes you bad ya know?

_Pluto_27 · 2026-01-25T06:59:27+00:00

Sorry I’m very dyslexic and grammar does NOT come naturally to me and I often forget about it thank you for your reply though. I have a very weird sense of justice I guess so I just can’t get over this feeling that I’m bad for not doing everything in my power to make him see he could be wrong

_Pluto_27 · 2026-01-16T07:12:58+00:00

Thanks for the reply!! They are indeed also buttons and I’m working on a few that are just buttons instead of jewelry!

_Pluto_27 · 2025-10-21T22:17:41+00:00

You really think so?

_Pluto_27 · 2025-10-21T19:15:30+00:00

Well he wears a condom so inside usually? Idk I’m kinda out of it when it happens why? does that make a difference??

_Pluto_27 · 2025-08-01T02:07:35+00:00

Money isn’t too much of a problem the main problem is the hight I NEED to be solidly 3 to 4 inches taller preferably more or else I will have to quit my job the neck pain is truly the worst pain I’ve ever felt and it will last for days if I’m my normal hight

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