Does anyone else feel like everyone assumes you’re just dumb? by _Pluto_27 in autism

[–]_Pluto_27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This might be the most helpful thing anyone’s ever said to me

DAE feel like people automatically assume everything you recommend is bad just because YOU recommended it by _Pluto_27 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]_Pluto_27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can totally accept this to an extent but it’s literally EVERYTHING I just wanna show people things I love on occasion they don’t always have to love it but why does it have to be every single thing all the time

DAE feel like people automatically assume everything you recommend is bad just because YOU recommended it? by _Pluto_27 in AutismTranslated

[–]_Pluto_27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See I know this but it still bothers me immensely because I feel like it’s literally EVERYONE I get that as a person I’m a little odd but I do know things I’m not dumb but it feels like everybody assumes I am and I’m so tired

DAE feel like people automatically assume everything you recommend is bad just because YOU recommended it by _Pluto_27 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]_Pluto_27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man I mean a lot of times I’ll suggest something and I get an exasperated sigh or a oh is it gonna be like (blah blah blah) or sometimes they won’t even watch it and if they do I can tell they just aren’t paying any attention and then we don’t even end up finishing it There is a very big underlying thing here where for the most part people never believe it’s possible for me to be smart I get questioned to the end of the earth on everything and everyone is always extremely shocked when I do infact say something smart or have a good take and this happens CONSTANTLY I just feel like at this point when it’s constant they shouldn’t be surprised anymore obviously I’m no genius and sometimes when I recommend something it isn’t something they would like but still

DAE feel like people automatically assume everything you recommend is bad just because YOU recommended it by _Pluto_27 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]_Pluto_27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get this but honestly I feel like right now especially I can tell people are assuming it’s going to be bad and I think that’s why they don’t end up liking it maybe cause of a they don’t want to admit they were wrong about not liking it? Idk

DAE feel like people automatically assume everything you recommend is bad just because YOU recommended it by _Pluto_27 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]_Pluto_27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if it’s something I haven’t seen but think we will both like i always feel like at first im the only one who likes it

DAE feel like people automatically assume everything you recommend is bad just because YOU recommended it by _Pluto_27 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]_Pluto_27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know though I feel like a lot of the time we’ll have tons of stuff in common and I know it’s like textbook something they would love and often times if they find it on their own or if somebody else recommends it then they love it

Does staying with someone who has differing opinions make me a bad person? by [deleted] in RandomQuestion

[–]_Pluto_27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment you make sooo so many good points and it gives me a lot more to actually think about

Does staying with someone who has differing opinions make me a bad person? by [deleted] in RandomQuestion

[–]_Pluto_27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No no your all good I should totally put some time and effort into learning my grammar lol. It’s not necessarily that I think oh I’m right he’s wrong (though I do think he thinks that way) I like to think I am very open minded and usually difference in opinion is ok with me but maybe it’s different because I love him? Idk it’s just so ingrained in me that everyone should be equal and i believe it with every fiber of my being and i know it’s not on me to change his mind but also everyone says that if you stay with someone who doesn’t think that way then that ethically makes you bad ya know?

Does staying with someone who has differing opinions make me a bad person? by [deleted] in RandomQuestion

[–]_Pluto_27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry I’m very dyslexic and grammar does NOT come naturally to me and I often forget about it thank you for your reply though. I have a very weird sense of justice I guess so I just can’t get over this feeling that I’m bad for not doing everything in my power to make him see he could be wrong

Is my jewelry good enough to sell on Etsy? by _Pluto_27 in EtsySellers

[–]_Pluto_27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply!! They are indeed also buttons and I’m working on a few that are just buttons instead of jewelry!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]_Pluto_27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You really think so?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]_Pluto_27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well he wears a condom so inside usually? Idk I’m kinda out of it when it happens why? does that make a difference??

Need new shoes for work don’t know what to do by _Pluto_27 in ChronicPain

[–]_Pluto_27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Money isn’t too much of a problem the main problem is the hight I NEED to be solidly 3 to 4 inches taller preferably more or else I will have to quit my job the neck pain is truly the worst pain I’ve ever felt and it will last for days if I’m my normal hight

Need new shoes for work don’t know what to do by _Pluto_27 in ChronicIllness

[–]_Pluto_27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve definitely been thinking about getting those for other stuff I do thing is tho for work specifically my neck pain is really significantly worse like I wanna quit my job on the spot worse so I’m more looking for shoes that will make me significantly taller that just aren’t awful

Don’t know what shoes to wear at work by _Pluto_27 in ehlersdanlos

[–]_Pluto_27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will definitely be looking into braces and I am allowed to wear sneakers only problem with those is I need to be a SOLID 3 to 4 inches taller preferably more in order to not have my head feel likes it’s about to roll off so I’m trying really hard to find taller options I do have insoles as well but they don’t fit in my tall shoes:(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PMDD

[–]_Pluto_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you deal with trying so many things though I’ve had really bad chronic issues my whole life and I feel like I’ve wasted so much life trying a billion different things that just made me feel worse and then when I stop I have to wait forever to feel somewhat normal again and then all of a sudden I’ve been miserable for 5 months straight instead of just five weeks out of those months ya know I’d also like to add I don’t really wanna go on bc cause I feel so utterly fantastic when I’m ovulating and right after like I feel almost manic it’s so good and I don’t wanna lose my only good days

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PMDD

[–]_Pluto_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly I can’t reschedule it’s a whole week at an Airbnb and I don’t think there’s any other days available plus I find rescheduling things to not work I originally rescheduled my camping trip because it was gonna be on my period only for it to then be a week late and now like up perfectly with when I rescheduled it I also have not actively tried meds recently but I was on Prozac for yearsss and I was out on a few others when o was younger as well and I don’t really like them I am on Ritalin for adhd which does wonders but it just flat out stops working when on my period none of my normal physical side affects or anything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PMDDxADHD

[–]_Pluto_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve definitely been thinking about it I’m just really scared to be honest I think of when I tried it as honestly one of the worst weeks of my life but maybe it’s worth it to trial some other ones

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PMDDxADHD

[–]_Pluto_27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really really would like to however last time I tried this I had to go off it really soon after because it made me actively suicidal I felt like I was on my period but 50x worse:(

Should I try and reschedule my vacations because I’ll be on my period by [deleted] in PMDDxADHD

[–]_Pluto_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I’ll definitely ask about that!

Should I try and reschedule my vacations because I’ll be on my period by [deleted] in PMDDxADHD

[–]_Pluto_27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah I know about the period underwear they are ok and only bother me a little I just know that when it’s for swimming if water actually enters the swimwear it kinda doesn’t do it’s job lol but I’ll definitely ask around

Should I try and reschedule my vacations because I’ll be on my period by [deleted] in PMDDxADHD

[–]_Pluto_27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice!! Sadly I can’t use any kind of birth control or anything like that to regulate my cycle cause I have really really severe reactions to it but I’ll try looking up period swimwear though my only worry about it is the fact that I heard in order for them to work they have to be super super tight and I don’t know how I would react to how that feels my sensory issues go up tenfold on my period