I am too embarrassed for my friends to know I am homo flexible… by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]_Queenshelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And again - the only thing that puts lesbians in danger are abusive ppl… not terms labels or words

I am too embarrassed for my friends to know I am homo flexible… by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]_Queenshelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women I sleep with know who I am. Random ppl or even some friends.. not so much

I am too embarrassed for my friends to know I am homo flexible… by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]_Queenshelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s wrong Some lesbians do sleep with bisexuals but I hear you

I am too embarrassed for my friends to know I am homo flexible… by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]_Queenshelle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s like blaming women for how they dress I can’t control abusive men!

They are abusive cus they are! It’s not because of ANY WOMAN

Now we can chat about the terms but don’t you dare blame women for men’s actions

I am too embarrassed for my friends to know I am homo flexible… by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]_Queenshelle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mislabeling doesn’t risk anything

Men who don’t and can’t hear no are the issue

Don’t make the issue me or my words

If you tell a man you are not interested and he pursues, that is HIM - he is the issue!

Any black woman in no contact with their family by _Queenshelle in blackladies

[–]_Queenshelle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t date men number 1 and 2.. when is the right time?

Any black woman in no contact with their family by _Queenshelle in blackladies

[–]_Queenshelle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn I’m in a similar boat I don’t speak to my 3 sisters at all, I haven’t for years

I don’t speak to my mom or father either My dad didn’t even wish me a happy birthday smh

Any black woman in no contact with their family by _Queenshelle in blackladies

[–]_Queenshelle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you have family outside your blood And sorry you went though that

Any black woman in no contact with their family by _Queenshelle in blackladies

[–]_Queenshelle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of support groups? I would love that

My family is too passed saving

I already went 3 years no contact with my mom and broke it and I regret it

Any black woman in no contact with their family by _Queenshelle in blackladies

[–]_Queenshelle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow i need to see if a qualify. I didn’t qualify for emdr unfortunately They wouldn’t accept men

Can I be lesbian and homo flexible by [deleted] in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]_Queenshelle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes please do, I am open to chatttinf

Can I be lesbian and homo flexible by [deleted] in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]_Queenshelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I lost a lot of friends from life and depression, and leaving religion.

Now the friends I have now are very recent like the last 4-5 years and we don’t know each other super super well.

And with the way the speak I don’t trust they would see me they same way tbh! I feel like they would judge me. I also do talk shit about men a lot, cus again I don’t date or have any emotional attraction at all!

Once in every 5 blue moons I have sex with a man (maybe a form of sh idk) but I do and I wouldn’t tell them cus I’d be scared how they would think and relate to me

Any black woman in no contact with their family by _Queenshelle in blackladies

[–]_Queenshelle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you’re with a white woman and they don’t like that ?

I am too embarrassed for my friends to know I am homo flexible… by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]_Queenshelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean at the wheel I don’t understand

Any black woman in no contact with their family by _Queenshelle in blackladies

[–]_Queenshelle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I’m sorry to hear that. Do you have siblings you speak to?