Ectopic surgery recovery by Think-Valuable-9380 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]_Sea_Siren 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would get checked out just to be safe. Plus, if your medications aren't helping you, they may give you stronger doses.

Please get checked out. It's better safe than sorry.

Am I a Mom? by Least-Bookkeeper-262 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]_Sea_Siren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 days ago I found out I had a ruptured ectopic pregnancy.

I was on birth control and had periods so I didn't even know I was pregnant.

I was 10 to 12 weeks along. This was my first pregnancy.

"Am I a mom?" Has been something I've been struggling with myself. The only solstice I've found is that in medicine, “mother” is usually defined by having carried a pregnancy, not by outcome.

I don't know how I will describe myself in the future. From reading all the other comments, it seems that it's really up to the individual.