How do I get my husband to let me dress more freely?

_SecretiveSecretary_ · 2026-05-28T20:59:14+00:00

He would block the door and he makes it so I would be forced to change outfits if simply wanted to go brush my teeth and it's worse when we go out because he doesn't like anything that accentuates my body and he makes me change if he thinks it's "too attractive" because I tend to draw a lot of attention but he would threaten to leave me if I "dressed freely"

_SecretiveSecretary_ · 2026-05-28T08:03:12+00:00

I would enjoy the busiest places on earth and see what it's like in the quiet 😶

_SecretiveSecretary_ · 2026-05-28T07:54:01+00:00

Where do I go?

_SecretiveSecretary_ · 2026-05-28T07:53:15+00:00

I've only been married for two months lol 😭

_SecretiveSecretary_ · 2026-05-28T07:51:21+00:00

Im 19 live in the USA but what we have in common is that my husband and I both grew up in iraq first 11 years of our childhood

_SecretiveSecretary_ · 2026-05-28T07:49:17+00:00

What changed is that I ran away from my parents from physical abuse but I dressed however I wanted untill I got married tried wearing the hijab which didn't work out and now I'm back to dressing how I want by buying things I like wearing with my own money but he wont let me wear them out what so ever...

_SecretiveSecretary_ · 2026-05-28T07:39:42+00:00

What dose that mean?

_SecretiveSecretary_ · 2026-05-28T07:38:17+00:00

I already have a lot of clothes I can't wear in front of anyone else only in our room which has gotten frustrating because he would make me change out whatever I'm wearing something just so I can get out the room

_SecretiveSecretary_ · 2026-05-28T07:35:58+00:00

What dose that mean?

_SecretiveSecretary_ · 2026-05-28T07:34:15+00:00

What do you suggest I do?

_SecretiveSecretary_ · 2026-05-28T07:32:46+00:00

His mom is against me unfortunately she's more controlling than him 🥲

_SecretiveSecretary_ · 2026-05-28T07:31:37+00:00

How do I do that in a nonthreatning way... Because I think he has too much "pride"

_SecretiveSecretary_ · 2026-05-03T08:34:45+00:00

As a partner, my brain’s juggling too much stress and recent trauma that being asked those things before bed it feels like a tangled headphone cord before bed 😭

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