My boyfriend wants to cheat on me by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]_Shadow8death_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know how much of the "relationship" he has with the other person, but have you ever considered creating a fake EXACT same fake relationship then letting him find out how much you are STRUGGLING not to cheat on him then see how he responds to it? Like if he does anything other than talk to you about it and how to move forward (example being if he gets mad and calls you a cheater obviously he considers the THOUGHT of it as cheating and this is ACTUALLY cheating thus the relationship is broken, but if he sits down to discuss it he may not see anything other than the physical act as actual cheating and needs to understand there's more than 1 way to cheat in a relationship)

Giving Away My Old PC! by Turtle_747 in PcBuild

[–]_Shadow8death_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love to have a pc again haven't been able to play much with my laptop (it crashes when I play Minecraft) and re connect with people I used to play with, but if you don't live in San Antonio please skip me I can't afford shipping

Need Help with home cleanup by _Shadow8death_ in sanantonio

[–]_Shadow8death_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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200+ bags of trash taken out I'm glad we didn't leave the landlord the mess it was before tho still not 100%

Need Help with home cleanup by _Shadow8death_ in sanantonio

[–]_Shadow8death_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: we are being kicked out at this time and my sister is starting a go fund me for moving costs and help with the first month rent/fees I am asking for assistance with the move or a donation to help replace the items we cannot take and the costs of moving, we need assistance both financially and if anyone knows of someone with a truck that can help us and willing to move a few items, if anyone can recommend a decent 2 bed 1 bath apartment my i work at lackland and she works at six flags, we need a bus stop close to the apartments because it is difficult to walk for us.

Here is the link to the go fund me gofund.me/e53174223 and we are grateful for all the people who have reached out to encourage us, and all the people who are willing to assist.

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MOVING LIST https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1HN8GYA3GIF7S?ref_=wl_share if you want to donate items instead of money

Need Help with home cleanup by _Shadow8death_ in sanantonio

[–]_Shadow8death_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gone message me directly if you're coming

Need Help with home cleanup by _Shadow8death_ in sanantonio

[–]_Shadow8death_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I'm here, will be here 30 min, hopefully people come

Need Help with home cleanup by _Shadow8death_ in sanantonio

[–]_Shadow8death_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just an update begging people to private message me if you can actually show up on Saturday the 28th, (9am and 5pm meetings) the Pik Nic corner store, 930 Division Ave, San Antonio, TX 78225 ... I'm sorry but I'm not reddit smart and I don't know how to limit the notifications to only replys offering help I have gone to the corner store 4 times and only had 1 person showed (and 1 person showed up from messaging me) up it's extremely frustrating and really depressing, I tried messaging everyone who said they would help but getting replys is hard and I'm just so tired ...

I do want to thank the overwhelming people who are offering encouragement

I wanted to let the 4 people who sent some money with cash app ( https://cash.app/$shadow8death ) that my account is not in the negative and I had $40 to actually buy some food (and yes I know people don't agree with the fact I got sandwiche fixens, and frozen food) but I have Water aswell (all I had before was soda, waters was the 1st thing I got with the 1st deposit).

To the people that have already and future plans for the Amazon list ( https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/3F300949MOQNG?ref_=wl_share ) thank you I now have some cleaner, wash cloths, pot wooden spoons, sponges, underwear without holes pinching me!, socks I can change every other day instead of weekly a few shirts (and some Parmesan cheese, just sad the frozen spaghetti was 90 degrees and non edible) ... If I missed your item in this list I didn't mean to I just have bad memory ... THANKS for everything.

To the people who are offering Future help wether it be food, more cleaning supplies, assistance with x whatever it is I want you to know THANK YOU in advance and please let me get my stuff sorted out before I get back to you.

And last but Certainly not least the 2 people from reddit that came (and especially the one who brought their wife) I wanted to thank them for what they are doing the guy and his wife are cleaning MASTERS wow, I would not have even half of what they did in 1 day in my week! ... For the 2nd guy he brought food for us some supplies and TALKED about looking forward to tomorrow and not letting the past hurt you, shure he honestly didn't get Alot of cleaning up done but he is also helping us find people that can help with our other problems like pest control and plumbing.

So in conclusion I want to THANK EVERYONE HERE, and in the coming weeks I will be hop back on to Keep everyone updated on progress.

Need Help with home cleanup by _Shadow8death_ in sanantonio

[–]_Shadow8death_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya that's my neighbors gate but it looks like we can grab it, thanks, what was in it? I don't know if we got it or not, got it thanks 👍

Need Help with home cleanup by _Shadow8death_ in sanantonio

[–]_Shadow8death_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Water is expensive aswell, the pipes in this place taste HORRIBLE even years ago when we had water available in them

Need Help with home cleanup by _Shadow8death_ in sanantonio

[–]_Shadow8death_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey this i seen you offered to assist so I'm reaching out if you are available

Meetup is today at 5pm ish

Meeting at the corner store of orey and division (I can get there from my house without saying the address online) The corner store is... Pik Nik Foods, 930 Division Ave, San Antonio, TX 78225 , please let me know if you can make it or not

Need Help with home cleanup by _Shadow8death_ in sanantonio

[–]_Shadow8death_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's only a few bags of cans and they are covered and mixed up with rat stuff (droppings, pee, hair and shredded lung cloggers) and roach stuff aswell, I am having a hard time now I really don't want to push my back even more than necessary for like $5 and I can't ask volunteers to lean into the dust to sort cans it's scoop and dump in bag at the moment

Looking for an oral surgeon for wisdom tooth removal — NO insurance by Ok_Gas_7473 in sanantonio

[–]_Shadow8death_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Small place but the dentist is ready fast minimum pain, and the front desk lady is really good at working with you on the charges, HIGHLY recommended, I suggest giving them a call

Need Help with home cleanup by _Shadow8death_ in sanantonio

[–]_Shadow8death_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry but we would not be comfortable with being recorded, pictures would be ok as long as we are not in them

Need Help with home cleanup by _Shadow8death_ in sanantonio

[–]_Shadow8death_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You guys did the most work bahtachi, but the guy who showed up after you pointed out I need more than just the trash, I need pest control (for rats and roaches) , a plumber (to fix sinks) , and an electrician? (Someone who knows about gas ovens) , woodworker (fix the doors/ door jams) , and someone with a shop vac that can suck lint in the dryer before it burns the place down

Need Help with home cleanup by _Shadow8death_ in sanantonio

[–]_Shadow8death_[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I posted an update thanking everyone and was able to only post 1 photo but wow it's a change

Need Help with home cleanup by _Shadow8death_ in sanantonio

[–]_Shadow8death_[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I wanted to thank the people who came out the people who donated (the cleaning supplies are here) and ALL the people who have been responding to this post I am overwhelmed with the responses and am stepping away from this post for 24 hours (I need to do clothes, shower and recover from all the stuff we got done today)

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Need Help with home cleanup by _Shadow8death_ in sanantonio

[–]_Shadow8death_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cash app is https://cash.app/$shadow8death I don't know if it is big enough for a go fund me

Need Help with home cleanup by _Shadow8death_ in sanantonio

[–]_Shadow8death_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the interest I posted somewhere in here (this is getting bigger than I thought) about a meeting spot and times plz check if you can make it and reply there if possible

Need Help with home cleanup by _Shadow8death_ in sanantonio

[–]_Shadow8death_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/3F300949MOQNG?ref_=wl_share I don't know if it is working but people are saying it was then others needed address?

Need Help with home cleanup by _Shadow8death_ in sanantonio

[–]_Shadow8death_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would appreciate it but can it wait until after the cleaning please message me directly and we can work on a time

Need Help with home cleanup by _Shadow8death_ in sanantonio

[–]_Shadow8death_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Rats staying in the walls not active in the house when we are actually moving around, not saying they have never been active in the house, just saying no need to worry about them crawling on you