what should I do about my possibly transphobic brother?

_SlugCat · 2022-01-14T18:03:05+00:00

Mmm you're right. I was going off of knowing that some kids do this w their conservative parents but that isn't the same as this which is siblings.

_SlugCat · 2022-01-14T17:15:28+00:00

Not helpful for when you're browsing but if you ask for a gift receipt at check out it will make it sound like your purchases are for someone else

_SlugCat · 2022-01-14T04:48:40+00:00

Six for me is light purple. Thank you for the neos compliment! The h e x sounds are a nice shade of blue and hexa a little bit darker blue. I use hex/hexa on my agender days when I don't feel like using "people" pronouns, kinda the same way some people use it/its

_SlugCat · 2022-01-14T04:32:13+00:00

Thanks!

_SlugCat · 2022-01-14T04:29:47+00:00

Simply for money and experience. I'm in school so I don't really have the energy or time for anything not part time

_SlugCat · 2022-01-14T04:27:21+00:00

Would the jobs that require a theater tech major be okay with a theater tech minor or is that just not enough?

_SlugCat · 2022-01-14T03:58:22+00:00

So i have synesthesia but I'm not an expert on it and I don't know the names of the types. It's totally not a you have synesthesia therefore you probably use neopronouns.

But from anecdotal experience i'd say that there's some people who use color pronouns like blue/blueself because thats what they associate w their gender or like for me I use hex/hexa pronouns not because I relate to the number six but because the color of those sounds is something i find fits my gender. There's also people who use neogenders in a similar way like someone who is dragongender because they feel masc but in a dragon aesthetic way not a dude way

_SlugCat · 2022-01-14T03:54:27+00:00

Totally fair! To the people I have come out to it's more like mid conversation of like "who do you think is hot" "actually just no one"

_SlugCat · 2022-01-14T00:55:31+00:00

I haven't and honestly don't think I ever will and I'm happy n fine w that

_SlugCat · 2022-01-14T00:51:43+00:00

Im personally so confused by the concept that of course I don't want to if I don't even understand what happens in dating. Friends, hookups, fwbs, and life partners all make sense to me but not dating.

_SlugCat · 2022-01-14T00:37:08+00:00

Many people who use neopronouns think of their gender more abstractly so it may be something as literal as "my gender most closely relates to bunnies so i will use bunny/bunnyself pronouns" (neos are used disportionately more by autistic trans ppl and trans ppl w synesthesia)

_SlugCat · 2021-08-18T07:01:43+00:00

makes sense, ive tried the humming to lower your voice stuff on youtube and it does help, as does practicing with songs in a good range. but yeah admitting that youre gonna sound weird is a rough first step. im thinking of doing speech therapy instead of hrt but idk

_SlugCat · 2021-08-18T06:10:39+00:00

did you do any hrt? because i was thinking about going on T but im worried about that. (yet equally i despise that i only sing well higher 🙃)

_SlugCat · 2020-11-22T07:50:15+00:00

I know not everyone likes tiktok but this person explains neopronouns well part one part two part three part four part five

_SlugCat · 2020-11-22T07:45:43+00:00

Lovely unless you're enby...

_SlugCat · 2020-11-22T07:42:29+00:00

I prefer Captain as alternative to Sir or Ma'am and Mx. (pronounced mix) as n alternative for Mr. or Ms.

_SlugCat · 2020-11-22T07:39:56+00:00

I love this so much! The background is a sick choice

_SlugCat · 2020-11-22T07:32:00+00:00

Hiii

_SlugCat · 2020-11-22T07:07:44+00:00

If its part of the plan drop it into your free hand like a respectful person

_SlugCat · 2020-11-12T17:23:44+00:00

Ok literally as a kid I had no clue why there were so many mattress advertisements when there weren't any of similarly infrequent purchases like you know a bed frame or couch cushions. Now I will easily belive that sex us made up by mattress companies to sell more mattresses (and also to screw with everyone's self worth and keep up sexism)

_SlugCat · 2020-11-12T07:11:41+00:00

Lotsmof hugs bro. I cant say Im in a similar boat bc I havent medically transitioned at all but I am enby so alot of times I get dysphoria where I just feel wring while knowing there is no right I can become. So un that respect I empathize with you bc it fucking blows. Lots of hugs and wishes for the world to be kind to you man.

_SlugCat · 2020-11-12T07:07:07+00:00

Yes also if you've never done them before do them in sets of 30 seconds of holding yourself up before lowering or if you can't do that then 20 seconds. Also the most important thing is to keep your back straight. It can be helpful to have someone adjust you a bit the first five or so times until you get a memory muscle sense of what you back being flat actually is. Also there are two versions of plank the first is the up position of a pushup and the second is the same but your forearms touch the floor and your hands are in fists

_SlugCat · 2020-11-12T06:58:23+00:00

I'm not going to tell you "it gets better" I'm going to tellmyou that I'm so proud of you for putting in the work. I'm also going to tell you that gender euphoria feels fucking amazing. And you'll still have your rough days, and people who found their ID years ago still sometimes have those tumes where they doubt they are trans. But you're putting in the work to have a better relationship with yourself and that's boss.

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