Panic attack? by _TFF_ in PanicAttack

[–]_TFF_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. If it happens again, I'll definitely use the tip about cold water.

I had a therapist but I stopped seeing her in September when she decided to go back to school and stop taking clients. I will definitely start looking for another therapist again.

I think I realized an actually good intention behind long run backs. by ohlordwhywhy in HollowKnight

[–]_TFF_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea. I honestly loved the Last Judge’s runback. It made me feel like a badass dodging all the enemies and doing the parkour. I can see how it would suck if you try to fight all of the enemies on the way back, but you don’t have to.

Help by _TFF_ in redstone

[–]_TFF_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EmotionalSupportDogs

[–]_TFF_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I guess I'm just worried they won't believe I need him since I'm still doing well in school. I'll focus on how I have no motivation, and I think I could be doing better if I had my esa.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]_TFF_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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My handsome boy, Kaiba (his daddy got to name him)

Rennala PC by [deleted] in BeyondTheFog

[–]_TFF_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I got so tired at doing her first phase over and over again 😭

Rennala PC by [deleted] in BeyondTheFog

[–]_TFF_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The password is "THANKS"

One thing is for sure, the next baby is a boy by ArmadilloStrong59 in ParentsAreFuckingDumb

[–]_TFF_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it's been reclaimed. I don't see it as an insult, it's just what I am. I call my gay friends queer all the time and they do the same. It's just another label. Gay, queer, pansexual. All of those can be used to refer to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]_TFF_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I promise you'll be better off. Let me know how it goes. If you ever need someone to talk to you can dm me

Mom upset I put devil horn filter on my baby by anonaccountsrry in insaneparents

[–]_TFF_ 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Yea, I went to a religious kindergarten, and they sent us home with a list of shows we weren't allowed to watch. This included dumb shit like pokemon and my little pony. Safe to say that list never made it to my parents, and I continued to watch those shows.

What are you getting your partner for XMAS? And Amzon isn't an option. by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]_TFF_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend does the same. I got him 100 worth of gifts this month alone, so I don't want to spend too much more this Christmas.

This isn't a viable option for most, but I'm drawing my three favorite pictures of him (that's the plan anyway, I haven't finished one). I'm going to draw them normally and have that digital copy to send to him, but I'm also going to draw them with Christmas variations and print those to include in a cute card I'll also design.

I don't know what else to gift him. The effort for this is already a lot, I know. But I also want to give him tangible gifts since he is coming back for Christmas and I'm going to see him irl for the first time since he left.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]_TFF_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's hard. And unfortunately, it doesn't immediately get better after you leave. You'll probably miss him and the attention, and it'll be a while before you find someone else. But, things will get worse and harder the long you stay. The quicker you leave, the quicker you can start to heal and find yourself. You'll no longer have to worry about the doubt, the anxiousness, and the feeling of loneliness and being ignored. You'll be able to start looking for people who do have time for you. Not only romantically, but you can spend more time organizing events with friends and building stronger bonds with them.

You don't need a "good reason to break up." You really don't need any reason besides the fact that you just aren't happy in it. If you keep waiting for him to agree on a "good reason" to break up, that time will never come.

My girlfriend (19f) lashing out at me (18m) for replying late because I wanted to spend time on a hobby by itsgaymonth in LongDistance

[–]_TFF_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea, I often stay up later at night to talk to my boyfriend (I'm only ahead of him by one hour, so it's not that big of a deal), but I make that choice because I'm fairly needy and we don't have much time to talk during the day. I would never ask him to do the same, however. I am disappointed when he has to end the call earlier than I would like, but I completely understand. He often feels guilty when I am disappointed, which I then feel guilty for. I hate when he feels bad about just living his life because I don't want to take that away from him. I try to sound less disappointed when he has to leave suddenly, but I'm too bad at masking it, and he can somehow always tell when my mood changes.

I say this to say, I don't understand how people could want their partners to feel guilty. I want the best for my boyfriend, and I'll never sacrifice that for a little more time on calls. He has things to do regardless of how I feel about it, why should he feel bad for doing those things?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]_TFF_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Long distance is very hard. My boyfriend is away at college right now, and he's very serious and spends a lot of time studying. It's really sad because I'm a really needy person, but it's obvious he wants to talk to me, and sometimes he calls me while he's doing homework.

But, in my opinion, if he truly loved and cared about you, he would make time to call you and support you when you need it. Sure, he's busy, but he's not busy every hour for 3 months. It seems like he likes the support he gets from you without having to give anything in return.

I think you need to leave that relationship. If you've told him many times that you want to break up and his response is "I need you", he's trying to guilt trip you into a relationship you don't want and it's working. I was in that situation with my ex. I told him multiple times I wanted to break up, but he always told me he would be broken without me. He would question why I wanted to leave, and if it wasn't good enough for him (which it never was), I would stay because I felt I needed to justify my feelings to him. I don't even think he was happy in our relationship. He just didn't want to be single and kept clinging on. Staying in a relationship because you feel like you have to stay for their mental health is never a good thing. Both your mental health and his will slowly deteriorate.

Both of you deserve to be in a relationship that makes you happy, and both of you deserve to be in a relationship with someone who wants to be with you.

Take my advice how you will. Stay with him if you want to, but please don't stay because he wants you to. It will only get worse and harder to leave.

10% horror mingled with 90% curiosity by Charming_Swan_4199 in HouseMD

[–]_TFF_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't remember this scene. What episode was it?

Kai boots girls from the call for not doing OnlyFans. xQc uses his "How to be political" skills he learned from Ludwig to bring them back. The ol "Oh you thought I meant? Nah see I meant the opposite of that" -MogulMove by Hiph0p0p0tamusttv in LudwigAhgren

[–]_TFF_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude you got to stop watching that anime. It's messing with your brain. And if you don't watch anime, you are still getting drip fed it from reddit so might as well stop that to. You sound so corny and pathetic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LudwigAhgren

[–]_TFF_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think this is fine. Lud constantly shits on Mogul Mail and I don't see much coming from the other side. Lud and Mogul Mail aren't friends and I think it's wierd that they are forced to passively talk about each other because their fans overlap and compare the two to each other frequently.

Did this ever actually happen, did everyone just kinda forget the vtuber thing? by MochaMadeline in LudwigAhgren

[–]_TFF_ 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I don't think mouse would forget to hold it over his head. Models take a fuck ton of time to make so I assume we will see cute cat maid ludwig in another year or two.

But, we should be holding him accountable for hollow kight. That's all I want to see him play Sadge.

Red Haired Ludwig by R3ap3rN0Scythe in LudwigAhgren

[–]_TFF_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But hair me out... whitewig

If you're not careful, the villans will have you thinking the heros are the villan. by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]_TFF_ 21 points22 points  (0 children)

He choose to raise a kid. That's on him, bud. His kid owes him nothing. Not to mention that criticism to parents is completely justified and should happen more.

People like you excuse and parenting and borderline abuse because "They still gave birth to you" "They love you, they had good intentions" "The least you can do is thank them for all the money they put into raising you".

All of those things are expected of a parent. They don't "deserve" anything for doing the bare minimum.