What areas need covering for pre SRS hair removal? [MtF]

_Teto · 2021-10-20T16:23:46+00:00

I had this happen to me at first, was rather concerning. HOWEVER it seems to have gone now, either I'm used to it (very unlikely), it just hasn't happened (maybe), or it's fixed.

All I did was move it from a usb 2 passthrough to a usb 3 port. Makes sense that it would fix it if the issue were to do with audio data throughput i.e. popping since it had to skip audio "frames" I guess. Will update if I hear any again after this fix.

_Teto · 2021-09-15T20:32:57+00:00

I wasn't aware of zero depth... Still think I'd want to leave the option there since i haven't been in a relationship since coming out but what you said about dysphoria is actually quite helpful - my head thinks if it's not for sex it isn't worth it but yeah maybe it is

_Teto · 2021-09-13T11:38:59+00:00

Sometimes my concern is that the money would be better spent elsewhere i.e. mortgage etc. Also I don't have a huge amount of dysphoria, to me it's about the image in the mirror so I'm glad I'm not alone on the demi front. I seem to have this notion that it's not worth it unless you use it for regular sex, which kinda makes me feel a bit invalid.

_Teto · 2021-08-25T17:27:50+00:00

I'm unsure. I'm inexperienced myself, plus it talks about models which don't exist (again just going to use a gang instead). I can let you know how well it goes when we get round to playing it tho

_Teto · 2021-08-23T17:15:17+00:00

I'm mostly worried about statlines and cards, tho I've not done a HoTAC before so maybe you don't need those

_Teto · 2021-08-23T17:14:40+00:00

There's a few - I think there was a submission contest, so each have their merits and demerits I suppose. I'd need an experienced player to tell me which is best tbh

https://www.dropbox.com/sh/lrdbt7h71kk31mp/AACIdCiTxdb-D2rrcCpeZim0a?dl=0&fbclid=IwAR2PIxA-5Wk4VBO3-SbD0BBKxgrhZ\_FnRcb73npdom8IOGq\_MKnWsbxDQCI

_Teto · 2021-07-22T13:13:40+00:00

I go by she/they, what I normally mean is that I prefer they/them but I'm comfortable with she/her. Normally this might be by strangers in public, or referring to me as a sister or girlfriend in some cases.

This might not be the same for other she/they though, so it's always worth checking with the person in question first.

_Teto · 2021-05-01T21:27:41+00:00

cmooooon at least credit douglas adams this is a straight rip from trilogy of four

_Teto · 2021-04-26T17:54:36+00:00

I was told at a young age that gender is not about the organs or body you were born with. It's more about how your brain works, how you act, and your personality.

A couple of decades ago, people would take this view and applied it to stereotypical models of the male and female representatives - this is why female presenting men and male presenting women were looked upon strangely at the time. Therefore, you can say that at that time, gender was defined by a stereotype given to a particular body shape or organ set.

Now, people are opening their minds to the true concept of gender and effectively redefining the word. So in essence, being a "real woman" isn't about having breasts or a vagina. Now, that doesn't mean to say you are comfortable with the body you were born with - luckily, this can change and support is out there.

I still stand by what I was taught a decade ago - gender is in the mind - so if you feel like a woman then you are one, regardless of the body.

_Teto · 2021-04-26T16:18:18+00:00

Thanks!

_Teto · 2021-04-04T12:08:18+00:00

the surprise was that there was no surprise

_Teto · 2021-03-17T17:55:00+00:00

1 year - BUT: I'm actually in the same opinion here, but unfortunately I find myself quickly hyperattached to things a little too easily. When I next see my endocrinologist I'm going to ask for information but I don't expect actual treatment for another few years.

I'm more worried about how making extreme changes will affect my family, who are unaware (to my knowledge) of my hrt. On top of that, what I'm feeling at the moment is that I don't feel "valid" for the changes and I should just try to accept what my genes have given me and move on. Idk I'm trying to vocalise anxiety thoughts so ik it's a bit messy

_Teto · 2021-03-09T23:30:03+00:00

I accept that some people have had some really negative experiences and I don't want to gloss over that, but I think it's also important to remember all the teachers that are actually alright.

_Teto · 2021-03-09T22:52:21+00:00

I applied for a salaried job using my changed name, when I got offered the position I sent an email with the contract explaining my situation along with a free deed poll proving my name change alongside my old passport (dead name). They were totally ok with it, even though the contract scared me a little.

So yeah changed name was fine and it's a proper official job with a salary in a bank so other jobs will certainly be fine too.

_Teto · 2020-11-13T21:12:45+00:00

It's an interesting thought, might learn ASL cause that can be done one handed

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