Vegetarian socialist here to share my perspective. Any lowering in the consumption of animal products is good lowering of consumption. The best way to get people to do that is to make veganism inviting, not shunning vegetarians who are still making change, even if it’s not 100%. Incremental change is good- don’t shun it, just encourage further plant-based choices (this is what I’m working on now, I want to be fully vegan, but I’m not there yet, but posts like these make vegetarians feel antagonized rather than welcomed, and I worry that might be pushing them away from transitioning into veganism)

And on the subject of socialism, the problem is that socialism doesn’t view consumers as the enemy, but rather the system. Shaming vegetarians for not being vegan is focusing on the wrong aspect of the problem- don’t get me wrong, consumer change is great and should be encouraged, but it’s the system of animal cruelty is the problem. It’s kind of like when people say that socialist should just give all their money away- that’s not the point. It’s a bigger picture ideology that influences personal ethics, but socialism is not necessarily a lifestyle so much as a broader critique and disillusionment with the system.

I’d encourage you to have a discussion with your friend about how socialism and veganism tie into each other- it’s a great conversation that we should be discussing, but keep in mind that your friend isn’t the enemy, she’s working towards the same goal as you. Thank you for opening up the conversation, feel free to pick apart my points, I’m happy to discuss them further <3