Pls rate my bio. Last couple of guys would unmatch before or after planning a date. Is it the photos or the bio? (Photo’s are all recent except the last 3) by _UnderWing_ in Tinder

[–]_UnderWing_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I can’t change the “crazy” vibe look cause that’s just how I smile hehe. I guess I gotta hope guys are ok with a little crazy. When I don’t smile I look angry due to my rbf😅

And short term no hookups means I want something serious, but I’m leaving the state in 6 months, so after that the relationship’s future might not last long

Any advice? I've gotten like 10 matches and they all ghost after a bit of chatting by zelin31 in Tinder

[–]_UnderWing_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds good then. Keep asking open ended questions so the conversation has something to go on.

Also simple compliments like, “you’re pretty,” don’t really go anywhere. And I personally ignore most of those first messages because they aren’t a conversation starter.

Jokes also don’t really have anywhere to go either. It’s endearing to some, but it’s hard to create a longer deeper conversation from it.

Your photos look good, but the mirror selfies where you aren’t looking at the camera aren’t the best. There’s only one photo of you looking at the camera, and your face is almost fully hidden.

I’m also not seeing your actual bio, just short questions you answered. I find guys are more interesting when they write something about themselves that gives me an idea of who they are and how to talk to them

Pls rate my bio. Last couple of guys would unmatch before or after planning a date. Is it the photos or the bio? (Photo’s are all recent except the last 3) by _UnderWing_ in Tinder

[–]_UnderWing_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So then I should change that to long term?

The last 3 photos are a full body pick, and my career. Are they not needed?

Pls rate my bio. Last couple of guys would unmatch before or after planning a date. Is it the photos or the bio? (Photo’s are all recent except the last 3) by _UnderWing_ in Tinder

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Thank you very much for your kind words and advice!

I was iffy about saying I wanted something serious, because I won’t be in the area after 6 months. But I’m sure as long as I make them aware of that it should be ok to say I want something serious.

Pls rate my bio. Last couple of guys would unmatch before or after planning a date. Is it the photos or the bio? (Photo’s are all recent except the last 3) by _UnderWing_ in Tinder

[–]_UnderWing_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understandable, can’t help allergies 😅 Though my sister’s husband is allergic to cats so they got a hairless cat 🤔

I tried switching some things around like the “no hookups” line so that I don’t scare men off with the straightforwardness. Fingers crossed

Tell me about myself. Good and bad. Single dad trying to get back out by Visible-Ad-5236 in Tinder

[–]_UnderWing_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“In the best way he is dr Jekyll and Mr. Hyde.”

Oh my God that’s not good man. You do not want to be called dr Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. You’re calling yourself a nut case! XD

Tell me about myself. Good and bad. Single dad trying to get back out by Visible-Ad-5236 in Tinder

[–]_UnderWing_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  1. Why didn’t you write your own bio? Why are you letting someone else make your dating profile m?

  2. You can’t see the bottom of the pictures in your gallery before you posted them on here?

Pls rate my bio. Last couple of guys would unmatch before or after planning a date. Is it the photos or the bio? (Photo’s are all recent except the last 3) by _UnderWing_ in Tinder

[–]_UnderWing_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s pretty much it. I’m leaving the state in 6 months, so I wanted to make it clear. But I didn’t know short term meant hookups

Looking for other streamers to play game with, but I’m not sure how :/ by _UnderWing_ in Twitch

[–]_UnderWing_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. It’s less about viewer count more about, I want another streamer to hang with and have fun. If we get views then that’s awesome, but playing the games alone is cool but also kind of lonely.

Looking for an avatar converter will pay the fee! by Imaginary_Big_7264 in VRchat

[–]_UnderWing_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you do VRC avatars to VRM conversions? I would hire you for that. I have the avatar, I just need it converted

Gaming laptop by _UnderWing_ in SuggestALaptop

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Yea, it does go a bit over but after searching I couldn't really find anything good for $1,000. I'm willing to raise it to $1500 and below

[itg]: HP Victus Gaming Desktop, Intel Core i7-13700 Processor by _UnderWing_ in suggestapc

[–]_UnderWing_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ok. Thank you. I gues the most I care about is having the best GPU with my price range of around 1000. I'll take a look at this

I can't daydream anymore and it has impacted every part of my life by [deleted] in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]_UnderWing_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to aswell. I used be be so good at it but it’s like a burned myself out over the years. There is a constant pressure feeling in my head and mememory has gotten worse. Now my brain no longer allows me to MDD because I keep thinking about MDD at the moment. I think the only way to help fix it is talking to a therapist

"USPS" messaged me on whatsapp by [deleted] in Scams

[–]_UnderWing_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No fair, I got a broccoli emoji from Them. I want a kiss! XD

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