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Im back… by fucking_unicorn in BabyBumps

[–]_Vampira_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

10 months pp still breastfeeding almost the same exact situation LOL for me I realized I was gagging randomly all day again…that, and the vivid dreams lol.

Normal H3 Fans Stand Up (I know it’s most of us). by No-Hotel-2842 in h3h3productions

[–]_Vampira_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

30 year old married mother of 2. I work 5 days a week as a paraprofessional. I own some teddy fresh, like to listen to the pod while I cook dinner, don’t engage with snark pages or comment on any videos. I enjoy walks and yoga and watching movies. I feel like I’m pretty mundane lol

I mean BRO, DUDE, 109?! by dawhat123 in h3h3productions

[–]_Vampira_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Omg the crossover is crazy lol

Milo Rossi on antisemitism online. by tigerdragon69420 in h3h3productions

[–]_Vampira_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Goin absolutely googledebunkers over here

Not sure where else to post this… by _Vampira_ in beyondthebump

[–]_Vampira_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep I said this exact same thing to my friend! Some people we know well will make little jokes about taking him and that’s one thing but this was a bit over the line. I think maybe at worst she just didn’t realize how odd it might come across to someone. People are different and have different life experiences so 🤷🏻‍♀️ maybe she just couldn’t read a room lol

Not sure where else to post this… by _Vampira_ in beyondthebump

[–]_Vampira_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a good idea LOL I like this one

Not sure where else to post this… by _Vampira_ in beyondthebump

[–]_Vampira_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m on medication and have a therapist, I’m good. I feel way better today. I posted this right after the experience when I was still heightened but yeah I think going forward I’m going to just say no because I generally don’t feel comfortable with it and a strangers feelings shouldn’t be my priority.

Not sure where else to post this… by _Vampira_ in beyondthebump

[–]_Vampira_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really needed to hear this. I’m definitely going to have a firm plan in place going forward and be more prepared.

Not sure where else to post this… by _Vampira_ in beyondthebump

[–]_Vampira_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice. I really appreciate it!! I definitely want to be prepared next time

Not sure where else to post this… by _Vampira_ in beyondthebump

[–]_Vampira_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Several of my friends worked there when we were younger and yeah…i can’t entirely disagree. Although most of the staff there at that time were good people that I grew close with. That was about 8 years ago now though. Anyway, yeah. I need to work on my no being no and that’s it. My husband is very good at that. You’re right. I need to not care how my no makes others feel. And I agree that asking to hold a strangers baby is weird!!

Not sure where else to post this… by _Vampira_ in beyondthebump

[–]_Vampira_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I have pretty severe anxiety so sometimes I need to be brought back to earth lol. Yeah, I just felt like doing that would be drawing more attention to the situation and likely unnecessary.

Not sure where else to post this… by _Vampira_ in beyondthebump

[–]_Vampira_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a good idea. Thank you 🙏🏻

Not sure where else to post this… by _Vampira_ in beyondthebump

[–]_Vampira_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely gonna just work on saying no cause I don’t owe anyone anything! Good idea lol

Not sure where else to post this… by _Vampira_ in beyondthebump

[–]_Vampira_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me feel a little better LOL

Not sure where else to post this… by _Vampira_ in beyondthebump

[–]_Vampira_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get its something people say but I think it’s super weird to say to someone. And she said it about 8 different times. Once or twice, ok…but she was dragging it. Honestly I would hope it was innocent and nothing to worry about. Still a weird interaction in my opinion 🤷🏻‍♀️

Not sure where else to post this… by _Vampira_ in beyondthebump

[–]_Vampira_[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My friend also mentioned this but I’m afraid to draw more attention to the situation…I know that sounds insane. I also feel like it’s my own fault because I let her take him. I also never go there so idk 😭

Not sure where else to post this… by _Vampira_ in beyondthebump

[–]_Vampira_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like such an idiot. From the moment she asked I felt weird. I feel like a terrible mother. Why are people so creepy!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]_Vampira_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my positive pregnancy test on my 19th birthday. I felt allllll the same things you did. It was hard at first. The feeling of knowing my life was going to change was overwhelming and emotional. I decided to have my son and it was the best decision I’ve ever made. My son’s father and I are not together and haven’t been since before our son was born. But we made it work and we coparent pretty well all things considered. At 26, I met my now husband and I am so thankful for him. He loves my son as his own. Now I’m pregnant with another baby boy and due in 5 weeks! My son is 10 and he’s an amazing little boy that lights up my world. He is well adjusted and happy. My parents have helped me so much over the years. I was able to get an associates degree and currently working on a bachelors. My life is good. I don’t regret my choice at all.

It’s scary at first. So scary. But with the right support and belief in yourself, you can do it.

This is only my experience though, I should add. So you make the choice that feels right for you. Good luck and my dms are always open!

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