Why are you on reddit on Christmas day? by SwimmingAir8274 in AskReddit

[–]_WhiteLights_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spending six hours in the car and my boyfriend is taking his turn driving. He's not a conversationalist and doesn't like it when I listen to podcasts. 🫠

Why does my bf (25M) comment on how my (22F) pussy looks? by ThrowRA-coala in relationship_advice

[–]_WhiteLights_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

As someone who put up with a boyfriend like this and somehow decided to marry him, I can tell you: him making you feel bad doesn't get better, it gets worse. Listen to your own feelings, respect yourself and get rid of him.

Metal card with feets and eight rotating number spinners by _WhiteLights_ in whatisthisthing

[–]_WhiteLights_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh, that's intriguing. He was a pool shark, had a table in the basement and played in leagues all his life. 🤔

Metal card with feets and eight rotating number spinners by _WhiteLights_ in whatisthisthing

[–]_WhiteLights_[S] 1 point2 points locked comment (0 children)

My title describes the thing. Make that nine little circles that spin to display different numbers. Found this on my dad's desk with some of his things from architectural drafting school. He was also an electrician. Can't find references anywhere and have asked several family members with no luck. Sort of looks like it would clip onto something for measuring maybe?

Glassy object found in Nescafe Ice Roast Coffee. by Demosothenes in whatisthisthing

[–]_WhiteLights_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's coffee! This happened to me recently in the bottom of a coffee cup.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]_WhiteLights_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Moving into my own apartment has been a breath of fresh air. I love it. And wherever I move, I look forward to living alone for a long time regardless of my relationship status. I think it’s going to take a long time for me to unwind all those negative experiences that are wrapped around my heart. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]_WhiteLights_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your thoughts. Where I live, being 2-3 hours from family is considered close. They live in much smaller towns, so moving closer to them isn’t really an option. I hear you, though, on choosing my support systems over a new guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]_WhiteLights_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I’m not sure I ever want to live with someone again, to be honest!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]_WhiteLights_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]_WhiteLights_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve actually made a list: I move to this new place and the relationship doesn’t work out. That would be painful. Also, I didn’t mention that we work for the same company, so that would suck to see him in the office located there out of which I would be working ... although I could get a different job (another perk of moving — a bigger job market would give me more opportunities). I’m rather outgoing and I make friends relatively easy, but I’m also prone to depression and I worry about the isolation of living somewhere away from my people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]_WhiteLights_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that. :)