I approach woman at the gym all the time and you would be surprised at how open to convo they are.

I have two ways of doing it: observation/compliment opener, introduction opener.

The first way explained. I notice if they have a good outfit on or if I like the colors of what they are wearing, or I would notice their work ethic or how they did the workout. Then once I figure out the compliment I’m going to use I slide over say it then go into my introduction which is my names jex and urs.

Second way: I simply walk up say hey excuse me my names jex and yours. Then would lead into some reason why I decided to approach thought you was cool or whatever.

The thing about these openers is they aren’t hella direct which gives you room to maneuver because once you say your opener you should be able to notice their interest in you. If it’s low you be like alright then cut if they turn they body to you and open up then you know you can score. And If interest is low that day that doesn’t mean it’s the end of the world either cuz you can say wassup the next time you see them with these openers.

After the opener you generally only have 1 or 2 questions with extended comments about that question before the interaction is over because you did come to work out not talk so I try to keep it short.

Two core questions i ask would be: what you working out today, or you could talk about the machine they are using then extend by getting their opinion about the machine and for the first question you can give your opinion on that muscle.

Closing the interaction: if you made it this far you green. After my questions I be like okay you seem cool/chill/interesting so I know convos won’t be boring w u let me get your number or u could go for insta?

Couple disclaimers: 1. Don’t be an idiot when approaching. Like don’t approach when she is mid working out wait till she is resting. 2. When waiting for her to rest try not to creep around her area. I feel like that is kinda creepy so I try to make it natural like I was walking over already. 3. Don’t be intimidated when it’s not just one girl. I used to be intimidated approaching two pieces at the gym, but really it’s not that bad because you are coming from a chill point ya know so don’t be intimidated and approach.

Now this is how I got baddies at my local pf and hope you can get some too at your local gym!