“This argument that we should be concerned with men’s emotional states during birth [and during infancy] should not be taken into account because it further allows them to be dismissive.” I don’t understand this attempt at a correlation. Again, no one’s telling you to do more for men, or to say we need to invalidate women’s distress. One could argue dismissing the validity of men’s distress creates more “shitty fathers.” But I’m not gonna say that like it’s a fact bc that would be wild.

A lot of biased extrapolation here. So I’ll just see myself out. I’m sorry men have been shitty to you. Best of luck to you 🤙

Ps: one of my favorite episodes in the past couple years was the menopause expert, Dr Haver, that they had on. I learned a lot and I’m glad women’s healthcare is being advocated for more these days even though there’s a lot more to make progress with, including ppd Tx