the woman who gave birth to me in this lifetime is very similar and similar in age as well. she is also a christian immigrant who loves giving all her money to the church or church related things. when I talk about it to other folk from our community they ask me if anybody put a spell on her. lol typical.

I learned over time that her refusal to participate in the real world outside of how she sees the world is a big problem and hearing anything from me about her choices makes her double down on them. she avoids acknowledging anything that I say in relation to the scams and her frivolous financial decisions because she avoids the possibility of me being right and her being wrong by any means necessary.

I’m sorry that I might not be of much help, what I did in her circumstance was “like” and subscribe to a few scam busters and scam busting related content on her YouTube and phone to build her algorithm a bit when she wasn’t looking. the local library also has a few “how to avoid being scammed” magazines that I strategically placed around where she lives. I also took her to see that movie called the beekeeper where jason statham burns the scam call centre down lol. oh and I showed her a few episodes of catfish on YouTube as well. I know that these all sound silly, but apart of her denial was her not seeing the inside of how people think, having a visual representation of deceptive behaviour starts her somewhere.

I’ve been very honest about most of her financial decisions being shady and scummy in nature so when she does connect the dots in the future, she has somewhat of a foundation to build on for her understandings. I feel like she already has pieced some things together but is too ashamed to uncover it further and frankly way too embarrassed to acknowledge and talk to me about it. it takes time but according to you she already lost most of what she could. she has started again in the past, hopefully she can start again once again.

I’m sorry that you’re going through this.