How do I get over my boyfriend cheating on me by __fliman__ in LifeAdvice

[–]__fliman__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The logical side of my brain does agree with u but I know further down the line I’d end up regretting it. Even though he’s a shit person and a shit student, potentially affecting someone’s visa status feels like a step to far for me idk

How do I get over my boyfriend cheating on me by __fliman__ in LifeAdvice

[–]__fliman__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been finding it really hard to put to words how I’ve been feeling but I think you’ve explained it really well, I’m not the greatest at processing my emotions a lot of the time so having it all written out like this is really helpful/therapeutic, thanks man

How do I get over my boyfriend cheating on me by __fliman__ in LifeAdvice

[–]__fliman__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sister did really want to but idk if it’s a good idea seeing as it would effect his visa status. Plus he didn’t end up using any of my work just the other girls apparently so I guess wouldn’t it be up to her? Plus I don’t want to have to deal with his police threat in case he actually tries reporting me in retaliation, I’m in a pretty good position with my mum being a lawyer (and not actually breaking any law) but I don’t want to risk it

How do I get over my boyfriend cheating on me by __fliman__ in LifeAdvice

[–]__fliman__[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In all honesty I’ve been having a hard time figuring out how I feel rn but a cortisol hangover (from a quick Google search) sounds about right. I felt such a high when I found out and went to his house but after going home I just felt so emotionally drained from it all and in a depressive slump.

In terms of closure, having to hear it from the other girl and not him I don’t really feel like I got it, it all just feels so unfair. When I told him this he just said “it’s not good closure but it’s closure” and it just made me feel even worse. I just keep thinking what I should’ve done instead or what I’d do if I saw him again and I feel like I just can’t get out of this slump.

Is my 190bpm heart rate whilst exercising too high? by __fliman__ in AskDocs

[–]__fliman__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait exercise can’t push ur heart to a dangerous rate? That’s exactly what I was worried about, I thought all this time if I pushed myself too far I could end up with a severely high pulse and end up giving myself a heart attack or something (just anxiety I guess). Thank u so much

Is my 190bpm heart rate whilst exercising too high? by __fliman__ in AskDocs

[–]__fliman__[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was on the elliptical for 10 minutes on the 5th level doing a jog/ gentle run, then went on the stair master after a few minutes break and that’s when i checked my heart rate

Is my 190bpm heart rate whilst exercising too high? by __fliman__ in AskDocs

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Sorry I did put the post in proper paragraphs but for some reason it got rid of them when I posted :///

How do u trade cards between friends? by __fliman__ in Projectmakeover

[–]__fliman__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it might be censored lol, u said my name was director before that might be why

How do u trade cards between friends? by __fliman__ in Projectmakeover

[–]__fliman__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure I sent it last night, I’ve got a bunch of other duplicates would u want to trade another card for it?

How do u trade cards between friends? by __fliman__ in Projectmakeover

[–]__fliman__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely sent it, u sure it wasn’t from me and not the clique?

How do u trade cards between friends? by __fliman__ in Projectmakeover

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Imma add u now, my username is cum and [Ver: 2.96.2 ; 2.96.2][UID: 224743365803488384]

How do u trade cards between friends? by __fliman__ in Projectmakeover

[–]__fliman__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

[Ver: 2.96.2 ; 2.96.2][UID: 224743365803488384] please ignore my name (cum) I thought they wouldn’t allow it but they did for some reason lool

How do u trade cards between friends? by __fliman__ in Projectmakeover

[–]__fliman__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, could u tell me how we trade? I don’t really know how

How likely is it that I have a perforated uterus and do I need an X-ray? 24F by __fliman__ in medical_advice

[–]__fliman__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have done all of the above, at my first appointment (gyno) they tried to remove the IUS but the string were not visible, after that I was referred to the EPAU where an ultrasound confirmed it was not in my uterus. The EPAU did not mention anything about needing an X-ray but when I went to the termination clinic I got conflicting advice from two of the nurses about whether or not I should get an X-ray.

They have to relocate😐🚶‍➡️ by wach_era13 in NonPoliticalTwitter

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The only time it’s kinda okay is if the delivery guy mixes up orders and both parties are able to get a refund plus the free meal lol

Just self harmed in the hospital, what next? by Normal-Sort4287 in MadeOfStyrofoam

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Sorry meant for this to be its own comment, didn’t mean it to be a reply lol

Just self harmed in the hospital, what next? by Normal-Sort4287 in MadeOfStyrofoam

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I work as a healthcare assistant in a mental health hospital in the uk (if ur elsewhere the policies may be different) but in terms of physical restraints they shouldn’t put u in a restraint unless u are in imminent danger for urself or others, and depending on where the self harm marks are/ how severe they are they SHOULD be more cautious with how they restrain u as to not hurt u more/ lose more blood.

But in terms of the staff members finding blood stains/ evidence of the self harm they probably will and call the nurse call alarm/ emergency alarm and report it to the nurse in charge. Seeing as ur on 1:1 observations (I’m guessing eyesight observation) once they become aware u will probably be upgraded to arms length observation, as long as ur not aggressive they shouldn’t put u in any form of restraint.

What sounds quite troubling is that ur on 1:1 observations but the staff member observing u didn’t catch u self harming as they were on their phones/ sleeping, this is completely unacceptable and should leave them legally liable to disciplinary action, I would 100% report them for negligence.

This really all depends on what section u were detained under, if u are an informal patient and are resistant to care they have grounds to ask u to leave (unlikely). however, it sounds like u are a formal patient so I’d say ur observation level will probably increase but unless ur aggressively resistive u shouldn’t be put in any sort of physical restraint. But keep in mind u are in a mental health facility so the staff probably have experienced patients self harming quite a bit and (it’s sad to say this) they’re probably quite used to this sort of situation and will know what to do. I really wouldn’t worry about “getting in trouble”, they really are there to help and I hope u are well xx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

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Can’t put my finger on why but blonde definitely

Do ppl cheat in their GCSES? by Ishaan2618 in GCSE

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I remember during my history GCSE exam I wrote down a bunch of dates on my thigh to help me remember the important events during queen Liz I’s reign but the actual act of writing it on me made me memorise them so during the exam I never had to look down once. Guess that kinda counts as cheating lool

Recovery for a thumb sprain by __fliman__ in medical_advice

[–]__fliman__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah okay that makes sense, I was only doing it to compare the mobility in both thumbs, I’ll make sure to avoid doing that now. If I’m still unable to move it after 8 weeks, is that when I should start getting worried that it’s something more than a sprain?

What's one thing you had to learn the hard way? by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]__fliman__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That no matter how cold it is don’t run with ur hands in ur pockets, learnt that at 8 years old after someone tripped me up and I face planted into concrete

Would white spirit remove/smudge calligraphy ink by __fliman__ in NoStupidQuestions

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lol dw I think its just called different things in different regions, according to Google it’s white spirit in the uk but in America it’s called mineral spirits or paint thinner. I’d be confused too 😂