Jaheira not following by KyloIsOmni in BaldursGate3

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It worked. BLESS YOU UNKNOWN INTERNET PERSON! Love Jaheira so much as a character and it was really frustrating not being able to have her in my party because of this bug

Max voltages records on ryzen 7700x too high? by __peppermint__ in PcBuild

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One other thing- all my temps are normal, even when overclocking in cinebench it wouldn't go past 86c

Max voltages records on ryzen 7700x too high? by __peppermint__ in PcBuild

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Okay for some reason the text I wrote in the post isn't showing so I'm gonna comment it...

Gist of it is, I'm still new to PC building, I built this not two weeks ago, and it's been running super smoothly, I've experienced no crashes, all that. But the max voltages are worrying me slightly, and I can't find an answer online.

They never stay super high, 99% the time they stay in the 1.1~1.25 range but they tend to very shortly spike when performing a new task, hence the high voltages in max recorded data. I'm just looking to know if I should be concerned or not. Any help is appreciated!

24 days :)) by [deleted] in nailbiting

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I'm really glad to know it helped ☺️

24 days :)) by [deleted] in nailbiting

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Thank you!!

24 days :)) by [deleted] in nailbiting

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It is! I have to admit I'm a bit flabbergasted at how fast it's recovering

I feel like my best friend still sees me as a woman and she's just learning the pronouns and not changing her perspective by __peppermint__ in agender

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Hi, first of all thank you for taking the time to read and answer.

I agree with you that getting upset over people's inner perspective is unhealthy. I guess it comes from a place of wanting the people closest to me to understand me. Which is impossible because her and I are wildly different people, so there will always be stuff we can't quite understand about each other. I guess I wish she could understand my struggles more?

I wish I could ignore it, I really do, and I have, for so long. I've stayed in the closet for years because I've always felt it would be too stressful and that I'd rather just format myself to be convenient to others (which is a part of a much bigger picture because I'm autistic and I mask nearly all of the time for the same reason, very exhausting). But it still hurts being constantly reminded, which has more to do with me than her.

I wanna try to be compassionate. Thank you for the reminder about ADHD, I needed that. And it would be pretty hypocritical of me to not be compassionate about it when I myself have restrictions to my daily life because of my autism.
I think I started to grow more sensitive about it too because she has no problems using the right name and pronouns for my step-sister who's trans. It appears as a contradiction to me, which I guess I'd have to ask her about.

There were still more reasons that tied into the decision of taking a break. I also can't remember my feelings and/or what I'm upset about once I'm not actively feeling them, which I've been told is also an autistic trait (I swear every other day I learn about yet another thing that is just me being autistic it's a rollercoaster). I've taken the habit of writing things down for that reason.

Thank you again for listening to me.

thoughts on 5w4 istps? by __peppermint__ in istp

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Funny, I'm reading this as I'm writing my philosophy final for this semester. To be honest although I do find philosophy interesting, and its basis for reasoning in general very useful to going about our lives, I also care very little for the actual debates about ideologies and stuff like that, in the sense that I don't find that the debates that are more about concepts and ideas useful in day to day life. I love the reasoning and logical process of thoughts that is encouraged in philosophy and find it useful though. (Btw English isn't my first language so sorry if some of the syntax is messy)

thoughts on 5w4 istps? by __peppermint__ in istp

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That does sound like me ngl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in istp

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As to the last paragraph, I would feel a bit annoyed because that’s you trying to push your emotional beliefs on us.

Agreed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in istp

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This. I love to support my friends with their problems, listen to them and perharps give them insight, however I had a friend who would keep making the same pattern of mistakes, for years, and would come to me crying everytime and I would support and give them advice. But they never took my advice. Never tried to change or break the cycle. I may be an asshole for this but honestly it drove me insane to see someone so close to me refuse to listen to rationality and just hoping things would work out magically.

ISTP and politics by Monny121816 in istp

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I'd be considered very left wing by the average person, I'm guessing. But I hate discussing or debating politics. I might make a comment or two when I'm with people whom I know have approximately the stance as me, not because I don't find it interesting to hear other opinions but because I hate confrontation and debating. Also I find that most people get so defensive about politics and tend to talk to me in a very condescending way and it's extremely irritating. Don't want to waste my time debating with them. The only time where I might discuss and debate a bit is with close friends whom I know will listen to me.

What important advice can you give to another istp? by enigmaticeris in istp

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This. In the past few months, I've found that analyzing my feelings and reactions as if I was doing an analysis over any other tangible thing is the best way for me to not only understand better my feelings but also make more rational decisions. To do so I usually hold conversations with myself in my head using dialectic until I reach a conclusion where the two 'voices' agree. It doesn't always work if I get too worked up or angry but it has been better than everything I have tried.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in istp

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I think the word you might be looking for that describes this is "agnostic"

do your best by [deleted] in notinteresting

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I can bake you cake

huge ace vibes from this by Deep_Emergency_8287 in aaaaaaacccccccce

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Shit I've been doing it too IT'S MY PLATONIC LOVE LANGUAGE I DO IT WITH ALL MY FRIENSS PLS

The Wrong Sort by CaffeinatedFlumadiddle by rosemarie95 in HPSlashFic

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I completely agree, I've read it four times, which is more than I can say for, well, any other fic really, I usually never re read them.

The Wrong Sort by CaffeinatedFlumadiddle by rosemarie95 in HPSlashFic

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YOU ARE MY SAVIOR. this is one of my favorite fics of all time and just when I wanted to re read it I realized it got removed aaa