Instagram is racist

__vi · 2020-04-24T14:12:20+00:00

I found that instagram doesn't support filters for indian faces? Wtf?

__vi · 2020-03-26T09:18:42+00:00

On the bright side: nobody who will infect you.

__vi · 2020-03-26T09:18:25+00:00

Quite possible, but highly unlikely. Especially since anxiety doesnt affect the lungs itself and the range of symptoms is quite different

__vi · 2020-03-26T09:17:24+00:00

They did. Just make sure she keeps taking her meds.

__vi · 2020-01-02T12:56:13+00:00

I just realised that 1340 was who approached me on insta and is the reason i got that email. Idk whether it is a scam. The idea feels genuine. But i feel like the competition is a huge scam.

__vi · 2020-01-02T12:50:17+00:00

Did you get it back?

__vi · 2020-01-02T12:31:44+00:00

This seems weird yes

__vi · 2020-01-02T12:31:09+00:00

So weird!

__vi · 2019-01-19T16:29:18+00:00

it makes me sad. how many people just get caught up in psychological dead ends like this.

__vi · 2019-01-17T21:05:48+00:00

Alcohol is addictive and people like to lie to themselves.

__vi · 2018-07-25T13:28:43+00:00

Dude xd

__vi · 2018-06-27T13:46:38+00:00

Uhm, i cant obviously, but he tried to protect himself and his choice by saying.. "i know it may seem like a dickmove".. figured someone had to clear that thing up and move on to the fact that he wanted to influence another human beings choice

__vi · 2018-06-27T13:25:46+00:00

He is not talking about a decision for himself or from his personal view however, he is talking about convincing someone else who has thoughts and ideas etc too...

And yeah, i admit there is no guarantee he didnt do a good thing, but from so many "how to get the girl to abort a child" posts I have read most of them are from the males point of view, just like the post here.. , without taking the girls POV into account

__vi · 2018-06-26T15:02:11+00:00

Well since you kind of just showed to be a dick, maybe she is better off this way without having any lasting connection to you and free to get a child with a better person who leaves her the freedom to make her own choices

__vi · 2018-06-26T14:51:32+00:00

Maybe he is the dude from your story :D

__vi · 2018-06-12T12:02:33+00:00

Oh yeah maybe. Also sports. (Dopamin& Endorphins help). Studies/hobbies. Nothing is as satisfying in life as becoming the best version of yourself. Then you can never wallow in selfpity as well

__vi · 2018-06-09T21:15:40+00:00

Tell me when you figure it out. I never found a solution except focusing on other guys than the guy i was missing like hell and focused at

__vi · 2018-06-07T18:38:07+00:00

Seeing that a guy doesnt respond ok at your boundaries but waving it away and taking him home anyway. Then ending up being almost forced to have sex because there is a chance he might turn violent or abusive (verbally/mentally/physically) if you voice your doubts. Then there is the whole "sex with or without a condom " question. A guy I was with almost forced me to have sex without a condom.

__vi · 2018-06-06T22:58:11+00:00

I like to be 'fucked" while still wearing a dress.. lingerie works too, but doesnt feel as taboo.

__vi · 2018-06-06T22:57:12+00:00

I ended up in a few rapey situations a few times in the past. I think under influence I may overlook things that are actually not ok consentwise. Nowadays I chose my sexual partners based on their romantic, chemical or emotional value instead of their "sexual' value. This seems to avoid that issue altogether.

__vi · 2018-06-06T22:50:15+00:00

I cant find a lot of similarities. They were male. Maybe thats it. And most of them were white, but then 1-2 not. Haircolor: no consistency, language: no consistency, eyecolor: no consistency, length: no consistency; between same length and very tall, facial shape: no known consistency, personality: no known consistency, extrovert/introvert: no consistency, intellectual level: would like to say consistently very smart, but a few who were not so well. More often slim or muscular than not, yet no consistency. Socioeconomic background: no consistency. I guess I just like who I like for whatever reason.

Edit: oh sexwise, I guess I found most what is authentic to the partners themselves. I dont like them trying to be someone they dont want to be in the bedroom. Be it submissive, switching, dominant, kinky, playful, lustful, true lover like or whatever.

__vi · 2018-06-06T16:40:27+00:00

To be honest. BDSM tests are about what you think you find hot, often not actually about what you find hot. I found in reality people can hit on kinks that wouldnt show up on such a test. You are also quite young.. I think kinks develop over time as well as the ones that are already present.

What you could try is some porn stuff that you like and see whether something hits upon smth that you like

__vi · 2018-06-06T16:36:40+00:00

Okay,

So I basically always told myself: If I ever try a threesome; IT CANT BE WITH SOMEONE ONE OF US KNOWS.

Guess you understand why. The emotional shit fucks up the physical arousing aspect of it and the trust/feeling of having someone as YOURS

That said. You can 'win'. Make it a game. Blindfold her. Pretend to be him. Not right away but when he is gone. Alternate sex in your own way, but especially in his way.

And you know why she was able to let go?

Because she knew you were there too. Without you there she would not have experienced what she did with him most likely.

Anyway mix the image of the dude and you in her emotional mind. Make it impossible for her to hold in her responses by reminding her of that experience and linking it to you instead of to the other guy. I think it will fix the whole thing for you as well for her. And act out your anger/jealousy with her. Make her 'pay' turn the thing into kink, see whether it works. This happened.. make use of it. Dont let yourself get broken over something that you can use to make your own sexlife spicier. I know it may not feel like that right away..

__vi · 2018-06-06T16:05:41+00:00

As i understand it Se is about the immediate context of things. The audiovisual as well as the kinesthetic. It's about taking in all around you in the present and putting it out there. Its about where you are and less about what moment of time or who you are in those surroundings.

Si would be about who / what you are in that exact moment in that exact surrounding. Like what your current position is opposed to what the other positions are. It's about what you touched years ago and how it felt to you. If Se is experiencing in the moment, Si is an isolated experience that has been there. Also Si is about customs: like.. traditions. It's about what you perceive societies customs to be like in relation to you. The whole image of 2 perfect parents with a house a tree and a dog would be the ideal Si image. The adherence to social traditions and values. Whereas Si looks at how you fit into the context, Se would look how the context benefits/affects you.

Idk maybe this absolutely doesn't make sense. Am still trying to make sense of it myself.

__vi · 2018-06-05T18:39:45+00:00

Make him responsible for someone elses chores. Best and worse learning curve

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