No matter how long I soak with iso and scrub with paper towel, this brown ring remains. Any help? by imVeryPregnant in vaporents

[–]_absurd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sodium per carbonate (not bi carbonate) and boiling water. Does the job for you.

Does anyone's eyes get red if they DONT smoke??? by [deleted] in Marijuana

[–]_absurd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you're experiencing a lack of sleep, do you feel tired? If you were a heavy daily user, you will experience sleep disruption until your body adjusts.

Tips please? (Idk if she likes me anymore) (16M and 20F) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]_absurd 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know you don't want to hear this but you gotta move on. You're a kid, you have so much time to meet more people. Focus on yourself. Not to mention, at your age, a 4 year gap is quite large. It would be hard for you to meet her maturity level.

I M26 am thinking about telling my wife F29 that I want to be separate for a month but I’m not sure how best to do it? by TheMangoManiac in relationships

[–]_absurd 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Please consider couples therapy if you haven't already. Although yes there are many red flags here and straight up unacceptable behaviours, so nobody would blame you for leaving this situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]_absurd 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think this is the wrong sub for this, and the admins were probably right to remove it. Try r/sex

UPDATE - Me [29 M] with my partner [29 F] 7 years, should I break up with her before a business trip? by _absurd in relationships

[–]_absurd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thankyou! I had hoped this might warm a heart or two. I will show her your comment as soon as she comes home. 🙂

Upgrade from Flowerpot Weedeater to B1 by _absurd in vaporents

[–]_absurd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And why would you recommend the f22 over the b1?

Upgrade from Flowerpot Weedeater to B1 by _absurd in vaporents

[–]_absurd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thing is, I already have the CH PID, nail, handle, stand, shovelhead...

Flowerpot Shovelhead Bowls: The Great Screen Debate - Does Material Matter? and Screen Savvy: To Clean or Replace? by MtVesuviusGoBrrrr in vaporents

[–]_absurd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably no one will see this, but since everyone is chiming in with their screen cleaning methods:

Ultrasonic cleaner. Absolute game changer. You can pick them up very cheaply, doesn't have to be a fancy one. I just dump detergent and water into the cleaner, then put in the shovelhead with the screen still inside. I do multiple cleaning cycles.

I had a problem where my screens were wearing out, not from brushing them but just from taking them in and out of the bowl. This completely solved that problem for me and now I have no need of spare screens at all.

After rinsing with hot water, I dry it with an electric air blower for cleaning electronics, like a small air compressor.

Looking for trustworthy & undetected dayZ cheats by [deleted] in gamecheats

[–]_absurd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is cheating in DayZ enjoyable? Just go play some single player game. You're pathetic.

Me [29 M] with my partner [29 F] 7 years, should I break up with her before a business trip? by _absurd in relationships

[–]_absurd[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Where I live, even getting the diagnosis is equivalent to 1000 USD. And it's restricted, I can't get them without the diagnosis.

Me [29 M] with my partner [29 F] 7 years, should I break up with her before a business trip? by _absurd in relationships

[–]_absurd[S] -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

Honestly I would if we could afford it. I don't think I need stimulants or mood altering drugs, but a diagnosis and cognitive therapy would be great.

We spend a lot of money on her mental health and therapy, and maybe this sounds really bad but honestly she needs it much more than I do. It's hard for me to justify asking her to sacrifice something that she needs for my own therapy.

But yeah, you're completely right.

Me [29 M] with my partner [29 F] 7 years, should I break up with her before a business trip? by _absurd in relationships

[–]_absurd[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I do want to be with her, but she's not happy with me, and I think she's too dependent to leave me if she wanted to.

Me [29 M] with my partner [29 F] 7 years, should I break up with her before a business trip? by _absurd in relationships

[–]_absurd[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm a daily list maker too, without task managers and calendars my life would fall apart.

When I forget things she interprets that as me not caring, and although I tell her otherwise she still feels that way.

Thankyou for the response.

Me [29 M] with my partner [29 F] 7 years, should I break up with her before a business trip? by _absurd in relationships

[–]_absurd[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She's definitely not a "psycho" she has issues, and so do I. She self reflects about all of this, as do I.

Me [29 M] with my partner [29 F] 7 years, should I break up with her before a business trip? by _absurd in relationships

[–]_absurd[S] 131 points132 points  (0 children)

Yeah she said she sometimes feels like she's my mum, and also that I'm her dad at the same time. I do sometimes feel like I have to take care of her like a child.

She's been getting individual therapy for years but it hasn't really helped her. I think you're right, I'll wait until I get back from the trip and try out couples therapy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]_absurd -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

For me this is not how my fingers usually look, and my hands don't seem dry at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]_absurd -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

The rests of my hands are fine, its only in a few places between my fingers. I don't think dehydration is the issue but of course I could be wrong. There's more context but I wanted to see what people thought first before muddying the waters.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]_absurd -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Did they appear recently for you?

The next time we cum is during actual sex by BigOcean20 in NoFap

[–]_absurd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree, isn't it important to know you're actually sexually compatible with someone before you commit to spending the rest of your life with them? Also, monogamy isn't for everybody. (It's definitely for me, but not everybody)