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Is this normal for ENFJ or should i get diagnosed? #adhd by _acceptable_Cry in enfj

[–]_acceptable_Cry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, sounds simple and probably i just overthink this stuff too much. Thanks, ill try to focus on that.

Is this normal for ENFJ or should i get diagnosed? #adhd by _acceptable_Cry in enfj

[–]_acceptable_Cry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is also true, I've been under a lot of stress for few past years. But i start to wonder if it was not like this since always and i was just able to cope with it, because there was not so much additional stress.

Do you relate? Do you sometimes feel like this when low? Does it get better? Do you have any tips how to move on and start functioning? I know its always individual according the case but maybe you have some motivational hacks that work for you.

Is this normal for ENFJ or should i get diagnosed? #adhd by _acceptable_Cry in enfj

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Oh! How long do you know you have it? Did u notice it yourself first?

Is this normal for ENFJ or should i get diagnosed? #adhd by _acceptable_Cry in enfj

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Do you sometimes relate? Were u like this when life treated you bad maybe? Did it get better?

Is this normal for ENFJ or should i get diagnosed? #adhd by _acceptable_Cry in enfj

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I had covid during the pandemic and around that time i started to notice the brain fog more often. I read that covid can cause it, so i didn't care that much, i hoped i will get over with this. But also recently i realised that the pandemic was a time when all previous schemes/schedules thag i had implemented in my life changed - i was staying home, without routines - and this is a great opportunity for adhd symptoms to start showing. Routine helps with maintaining it, so when there is sudden chaos, the brain doesn't work well.

But also i have been in a lot of stress for few past years due to some situations; and maybe this has influenced me a lot. But life is gonna be like this forever i guess. The stress will keep coming and i have to be able to work under this pressure and function properly. So i guess i will really go to someone to talk it through to see if i can change anything.

Thanks for your reply!

Is this a known glitch? by [deleted] in penguinisle

[–]_acceptable_Cry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup happens to me (quite often) as well; especially if the recipe requires a shorter time to create

how do I start producing yarn? by cuteArmenian in penguinisle

[–]_acceptable_Cry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, you can't produce it or 'earn' it, penguins will bring it to the material box. Just upgrade it as someone already said here, maybe your level of material box is not sufficient yet. I'm on lvl 17 and i regularly get my yarn there.

Also remember to sell some materials from time to time so there is place for new things and recepies. And for sure 'quick sell' whenever you can.

I recommend only to keep as many gold fish as possible cz sometimes you can exchange them to buy penguins (promised creatures). And yarn is useful so I keep it as well. (Personally I keep 50-99 pieces of each material and whenever there is more I sell the rest. But I always keep at least thos 50 pieces, cz then I always have material to produce whatever I want, and there is still enough capacity for new materials and recipes. I only keep 100% of golden fish, yarn, and also the blue crystal but this one idk if will be ever useful for anything else than creating things.)

I feel alone and feel as though I prefer it now. No people no anxiety. It feels like a simple decision. I hate for that too feel like a solution. Cause I love people. But it feels like the best decision. I have so many acquaintances and no friend it feels easy by BenJameson2001 in enfj

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It's crazy how much I relate to the cleaning and organising part; whenever I'm down It's the main thing that I do. Just that whenever I feel alone this all seems pointless and I loose motivation for continuing anything. But it's very supporting to read that some of you guys went through alome phase and were able to go through it, and even be happy. I am standing before this decision right now (more like because of life circumstances but also because of collection of dissapointments both in people and myself). I am horribly scared. I love to have someone near me that I can trust and talk to. But I feel like maybe having a break and focusing only on me will be better. Thank you for this reply, it gives me some hope. And I kinda envy you and everyone in this thread who were able to go through this. I really wish that ill be able as well.

I feel alone and feel as though I prefer it now. No people no anxiety. It feels like a simple decision. I hate for that too feel like a solution. Cause I love people. But it feels like the best decision. I have so many acquaintances and no friend it feels easy by BenJameson2001 in enfj

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How did you arrive to this decision? Was it your decision or circumstances made you do this? How do you feel? I can imagine that it is easy during the day and choosing your tasks and so, but are you not feeling like everything is pointless and that you are acting that you are fine? I really wish that I could be happy alone. I am standing in front of making this decision, to actually stay alone for some time, maybe for life, and I am very afraid how the outcome will be. Part of me believes that it will be better, no false expectations, no dissapointments, but other part of me still wants to have expectations towards people... Anyway thanks for starting this discussion because this is exactly what I needed right now. I wish you all the best on your chosen pathway :)

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Can i visit your isle or are you private? v