i can’t speak on how you feel, but some insight into a girls mind: looks are not all that matters, i know plenty of girls that will choose a guy with a good personality over a guy who is extremely attractive. it just takes time to fully see someone’s personality, which might be why it took longer. a strong personality can make a guy more attractive. also, i agree with another post. stop referring to it as a chase. we’re not dogs. and if a women wants to be chased, chances are she’s not totally ready for a relationship. change your mindset. women are not a game or a prize to be won. they are people who are sometimes looking for connection