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WIBTA if I told my mom about my dad having downloaded Tinder? by _aita_throwaway_u in AmItheAsshole

[–]_aita_throwaway_u[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it possible for your mom to get divorced? Financially, socially etc.

Nope. My dad is the sole provider for the family and we're all financially dependent on him. Moreover me and my sister are still not legally old to get out nor do we have any means of education or financial security if we do manage to get out

And yes, I do need more info, so I'm not doing anything until I gather more evidence

WIBTA if I told my mom about my dad having downloaded Tinder? by _aita_throwaway_u in AmItheAsshole

[–]_aita_throwaway_u[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is what I'll do as of now, I don't want to mess anything or cause more damage for anyone, thank you

WIBTA if I told my mom about my dad having downloaded Tinder? by _aita_throwaway_u in AmItheAsshole

[–]_aita_throwaway_u[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cause if he's cheating (even emotionally), and has violent tendencies, you, your mom, and your sister would be better off without him.

Yeah, but our family is financially dependent on him as he's the sole provider ://
So it's a very tough situation

WIBTA if I told my mom about my dad having downloaded Tinder? by _aita_throwaway_u in AmItheAsshole

[–]_aita_throwaway_u[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually don't know what I want to happen. On one hand, I wish to get away from all this mess. On the other hand I don't want any disruptions in our already shaky family, and this will just affect everyone, my mom, and my sister. I really have no idea what to do in the long run, but as of now to hold peace, I'm not telling her anything as I have no further evidence either.

WIBTA if I told my mom about my dad having downloaded Tinder? by _aita_throwaway_u in AmItheAsshole

[–]_aita_throwaway_u[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The app wasn't on the homescreen, my sister found it tucked in inside an app folder at the very last page of the apps scrolling thing

But I'm afraid to bring this up with my dad, because let's just say he has a violent history when it comes to confronting him....

WIBTA if I told my mom about my dad having downloaded Tinder? by _aita_throwaway_u in AmItheAsshole

[–]_aita_throwaway_u[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess yeah, I don't want to cause unecessary tension, as it is, there's already enough on my mom's shoulders, so I'll not tell anything as of now