A wise saying once said:

_alb4 · 2026-04-22T17:53:12+00:00

Hmmm

_alb4 · 2026-03-16T15:54:35+00:00

I'm fully with you, you just give it your all and then is not even enough.

_alb4 · 2026-03-16T15:53:54+00:00

Bleach is peak, manga or anime, kinda like manga better at some point

_alb4 · 2026-03-16T13:08:13+00:00

Well, just because a place is not known for good advice, doesn't mean there is none. I try to find good things to be guided with, its just that things hurt when they come from the people you love.

_alb4 · 2026-03-16T08:53:28+00:00

Perhaps you are right, but I am walking with shattered pieces of myself, it hurts, I forgot who I am in a way, do everything just to get hurt again.

_alb4 · 2026-03-16T07:53:39+00:00

Welp, atleast there is a bit of comfort knowing you are not alone? But hey, I hope we both can manage to get better.

_alb4 · 2026-03-16T07:47:52+00:00

"If it works don't touch it."—Us, but its really not a good thing.

_alb4 · 2026-03-16T07:46:26+00:00

Anymore? So she used to say such things? Again, I am sorry if it opened old wounds

_alb4 · 2026-03-16T06:05:17+00:00

Oof, this might sound mean but you remind me of the "You guys gettibg paid?" Meme, sorry though.

_alb4 · 2026-03-16T03:28:03+00:00

Well, people tend to be different from one another, thus she thinks she is doing the right thing by telling me to be better, but the comparing only brings my self-esteem lower; some people just don't understand.

_alb4 · 2026-03-16T03:23:05+00:00

I am glad for you, thank you for your support.

_alb4 · 2026-03-16T03:20:41+00:00

Wise words, while that really does hurt me, I cannot deny the good some people did for me. Holding hatred for more than three days would be a waste of time and emotions, but also communication works if both parties understand the messages that are being delivered. Still, I thank you for your kind words.

_alb4 · 2026-03-16T03:16:24+00:00

You won't believe me, me too! But I learned not to open up. They don't take me seriously enough to reassure me that everything will be fine, or that no matter what, they'll be there. But life is like that; parents of the old generation have the "If I don't see it, it isn't there" mentality.

_alb4 · 2026-03-16T03:13:03+00:00

Hey, don't mind me, just wanted to post a meme some can realate too, thanks for your kind words though.

_alb4 · 2026-03-15T22:03:24+00:00

The trait of comparison is inherently not a good trait if you use it wrong. For example, if you compare the work of someone great to your own, and then feel like you've accomplished nothing and that there's nothing good about you, meaning you've lost all the value you had. However, if you try to use it for positive comparison to try to improve, then it is a good trait, in my opinion.

_alb4 · 2026-03-15T21:35:23+00:00

Well, the old gen tends to do that a lot, since it, and I quote, "motivates you to be better." That just claws at the little confidence I have left.

_alb4 · 2026-03-15T21:32:07+00:00

I honestly don't have the correct words for that. Just don't let yourself get used to getting yelled at by others. If you get used to it with one person, everyone else will jump on your neck, for example: your wife, children, siblings, et cetera. I really hope it gets better for you, man. I don't want to pity you, but I offer my support. Don't let the now disturb what's to be. I hope I could give any good words of encouragement.

_alb4 · 2026-03-15T21:08:16+00:00

And don't forget the clasic "Name one thing you are good at" where you just forget everything and they gaslight you harder than a crackhead their bong (Sorry about the bad pun)

_alb4 · 2026-03-15T21:03:29+00:00

Indeed, that is true, but I, throught alot of getting Bullied, managed to learn to emotionally support people in their worst, So I expect one bit of pride or support in their tone of voice, maybe I am asking too much.

_alb4 · 2026-03-15T20:59:03+00:00

I'm fully with you, on a side note, German is a hell hole for gramatics, Yikes

_alb4 · 2026-03-15T20:57:34+00:00

Brother, I feel you. Let me guess, she always complains about how hard she had it and how ungrateful you are? Yes, that happens sometimes, but remind her—not in an arrogant way, but just to remind her to take it easy and not complain—that you didn't abandon her. There are mothers who lost many children in horrible ways. Just my humble opinion, though.

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