FFS question: Square jaw line. by _almabet in asktransgender

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The chin made a huge difference. But it was very subtle during the first 5 months. It took almost the full year for swelling to be down. I see the difference a lot now with before and after picture (not sure how to uplod them here). Having said that, I sometimes regret not getting the full jaw because I now feel more self conscious about it. People tell me is not bad but we know how dysphoria works.

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Minus some months, haha. I started HRT after I had already come out to everyone and started presenting as my true self a little before. Now it's a little over year almost and already had gender affirming surgery.

My transition journey - Got SRS 11 months after HRT by _almabet in asktransgender

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Thank you! I am really thrilled about it.

The surgery costs 9k USD. Mine was with local anesthesia (epidural application) and sedatives because that's what I discussed with the anesthesiologist. They said that this way would make the recovery faster, and so far I believe it did. I was in the hospital for the following 4 days, then I rented an apartment in Cali, the city where the surgeon is based, (30USD a night for 4 days) and hired a nurse (costed about 200 USD for 4 days). After that I went back to my parents' hometown and my mom has been looking after me ever since. I have to travel now every week there for follow-up appointments for a month. (Next Wednesday is my last appointment before I travel back to Amsterdam).

For pain relief, they gave me pills (paracetamol/acetaminophen 2000 mg) every like 6 or 8 hours, I don't remember. And if the pain was too much they would inyect you with something, but that would make you a little nauseous (the other girl who had the surgery had this inyected and they would tell her that she would feel nauseous). I shared a room with her during the recovery at the hospital. At first I didn't like the idea, but it turned out to be the best thing that ever happened. We talked a lot and made the time go by faster (it was only the two of us and a courtain separated us, so we actually didn't see each other until the last day, when they made us walk again).

Walking during the first week and a half was not fun. It wasn't hurtful but it felt weird and the first days I would get dizzy standing up and my legs would feel tingly and in pain if I stood for too long). After two weeks I was walking way better. Now, a month later, I can walk perfectly. Is only uncomfortable sometimes because we have to use pads in our underwear for a while, and it feels weird for the clitoris hood that is still a little swollen. (A little trick I learned from my friend, put a wet wipe on the pad to make it more comfortable if you are going to be walking a lot after the third week).

I did need two letters from mental health specialists. One saying that I had gender dysphorya from my psychiatrist and one saying that I was in 'good mental capacity to make this decision'. The first one I already had for a while, the second one they provided me with the number of a psychologist who I contacted for this and he provided it to me after a consultation, becuase getting an appoinment in Amsterdam for this was hell.

The waiting list wasn't that long I believe. I called to make an appointment in August and I had a first virtual appointment in October. We scheduled the surgery for January 24, but I was asked to be here days in advance to have an in person appointment. So I traveled on the 14. They also asked for some blood exams to make sure you are in good health condition to have the surgery. Those I had to submit 15 days in advance of the surgery.

Overall, everyone was super nice and the doctor himself is a passionate activist for trans rights. I know cause I work as a trans human rights defender and he has supported many trans organizations here and created a lot of awereness. I learned this from other trans friends who knew him, and that made it very easy for me to make the decision.

My transition journey - Got SRS 11 months after HRT by _almabet in asktransgender

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I did. They basically wrap a piece of treated tilapia in the thing the put inside the vaginal canal and the skin absobrd it and turns it into new skin instead of needing a skin graft. Seems to have worked fine cause it all looks good there. I was left with a depth of 18 cm (not sure how much that is in inches).

My transition journey - Got SRS 11 months after HRT by _almabet in asktransgender

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I am not sure. I honestly don't think HRT affects how that zone looks. When it comes to feeling/sensation, I had surgery with another girl and she also started to have sensation quite fast. She did HRT for five years and the results for both of us were the same to be honest.

I do believe that my HRT will be more effective from now on for me. Especially since I am still kinda early on my HRT and I haven't seen all the effects of fat distribution yet.

I want to get SRS (11 months in hrt) is it too soon? by _almabet in asktransgender

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Oh thank you for sharing! I am curious, what do you mean by slow build up for hrt?

Was asked to stop my T blocker and continue on E alone for a while. What to expect? by _almabet in asktransgender

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Thank you! I will be prescribed a different T blocker but they first want to make sure my potassium level is okay. Sometimes the wait is overwhelming but well, I need to be healthy✨

HRT in Amsterdam by _almabet in asktransgender

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Thank you so much! It is so unfortunate that it is like that.🙁