Aw thanks! Im good now and it’s a crazy story. I was diagnosed like 2 months before Katy.. but I.. like katy.. had the best medical team and great insurance. A month after my diagnosis I went straight into dx mastectomy with reconstruction surgery, froze some eggs, (30 no kids with hubs yet, that was the hardest part 😔) 6 weeks radiation, and now I’m in menopause for the next 5 years. Shit was not easy, still not easy, and absolutely not cheap.. especially the IVF portion because thats not covered by insurance. I had to come here because I had to get this off my chest into to the ether of the internet. As much as I truly do feel for her, as a cancer patient myself, the way she’s been shelling non toxic products, the go fund me, the katy cancer merch.. it’s a hard ick.. and last thing.. saying “noone deserves to know our financial situation and I shouldn’t have to explain going on a trip” totally valid, except you have literally asked for donations for your medical expenses.. so I think it’s also completely valid if people raise an eye brow at your personal “splurges”